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Tarotscopes For The Month of Love

February is considered LOVE month because of Valentine’s Day. However, it’s also a 2-month which is a partnership with either someone else or yourself. These Tarotscopes will be divided into the elements of Earth, Air, Fire, and Water. Let’s see what your sign has to offer you this month. Make sure to look at your Rising and Moon signs as well for better clarity.

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A Better Way to Meet

The landscape of dating continues to change, affecting everything from how people date to talking openly on social media about “red flags,” and concerns for safety. As part of the change, Lamont White, CEO and founder of Better Way to Meet, is helping gay men find themselves and a significant other in the dating scene.

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Love, In a New York State of Mind

“Fast" - one of the primary adjectives related to our beloved city, known for being the melting pot of the world. Whether it's fashion, food, or the chance to find love, time and time again. Nevertheless, the chance to just unknowingly find a significant other is available at every corner. For instance, while having a business meeting at The Moxy in Times Square, or enjoying a fabulous martini at Dante's. The possibilities are endless and, needless to say, overwhelming.

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The Power of Personal Style: How to Create a Dating WardrobeThat Reflects Your Personality

In the world of dating and matchmaking, first impressions are everything. From the moment you walk into a room, your appearance speaks volumes about who you are, your personality, and even your mood. Dressing is not just about looking good; it's about feeling confident and comfortable in your skin and potentially attracting people and opportunities. You radiate authenticity and confidence when you dress in a way that aligns with your personality and values. It's essential to embrace and create a unique style to transform your dating and professional life. Here’s how…

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ZEN in love

Koshin Paley Ellison and Chodo Robert Campbell are co-founders and guiding teachers at the New York Zen Center. With 17 years in business, the center has become a safe haven for people seeking care, education, and practice in Zen work. Koshin and Chodo have become an influential voice not only in Buddhism but also in the Queer community. In addition to serving as the center’s founders, they are also married Zen monks.

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Let’ s Talk About It

With the popularity of podcasts on an upward trend, representation of different communities within the platform has also increased over the years. In 2019, BYLATINMEN, a Queer-Latino entertainment podcast, debuted at #35 on Apple Podcast charts, marking the start of a long journey for creators and friends Kevin Ortega-Rojas and Anthony Polanco.

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The Importance Of Loving Yourself

We humans always seem to focus on the extremes, especially when it comes to how we feel about ourselves. Instead of seeking (and maintaining) a healthy balance, we seem to end up either gorging our egos on shallow adulation and unearned praise or poisoning them with constant self-loathing and relentless abuse. Then we let social media do its part by amplifying whatever pendulum-swing of mania we happen to be suffering and make things even worse.

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How To Heal From A Toxic Partner

Breaking up with a toxic partner can be an emotionally devastating experience. You might feel discarded and alone after putting so much effort into your relationship. However, your feelings don't define you. With the right strategies for self-care, you can overcome the pain of a destructive partnership and come out stronger than before.

If you're ready to begin your journey toward healing after a toxic partner, here are a few tips to help you with your healing journey.

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All You Need Is Love

Poets ponder it, musicians sing about it, and actors perform it. We know the aphorisms by heart: love conquers all, all you need is love, love is the answer, and on and on. Is it any wonder most of us have come to believe the only thing a relationship requires is love?

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Romancing Yourself

As February approached, thoughts of Valentine’s Day came to mind. I started thinking about all of the familiar stories seen – we all know the ones: A list of what you and your special someone can do on that special day, complete with photos of a couple looking so much in love. Sharing kisses, hugs, flowers and candy.

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Cultures of Marriage

Traditions can vary dramatically when it comes to walking down the aisle. It’s easy to think you’ve seen it all when it comes to weddings. Staple traditions like tossing the bouquet, “something borrowed, something blue,” or even the first dance seem imprinted on our collective psyche. Even the specifically Jewish tradition of wrapping a glass and stomping on it to shouts of “Mazel Tov” are instantly recognizable wedding customs to most of us.

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The Forgotten Art of Dating

Oh, the art of dating; it’s become a lost art for many. As a matchmaker who’s witnessed the dating landscape for three decades, I’m not surprised that many old-school courting rituals and dating etiquette are forgotten.

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