Jill Martin: Celebrating the Gift of Life
Jill Martin is a multifaceted television personality, fashion expert, and author, best known for her role as a lifestyle contributor on NBC’s "Today" show. Her infectious energy and keen eye for style have made her a beloved figure in the world of entertainment. Beyond her work in front of the camera, Jill is also a bestselling author, with several books on fashion and lifestyle under her belt. She has a knack for making style accessible to all, often sharing insightful advice and chic solutions for modern living. Jill’s personal journey, particularly marked by her recent triumph over cancer, showcases her strength and resilience. Her ability to connect with audiences through her authenticity and candidness makes her truly inspiring.
Jill Martin is a multifaceted television personality, fashion expert, and author, best known for her role as a lifestyle contributor on NBC’s "Today" show. Her infectious energy and keen eye for style have made her a beloved figure in the world of entertainment. Beyond her work in front of the camera, Jill is also a bestselling author, with several books on fashion and lifestyle under her belt. She has a knack for making style accessible to all, often sharing insightful advice and chic solutions for modern living. Jill’s personal journey, particularly marked by her recent triumph over cancer, showcases her strength and resilience. Her ability to connect with audiences through her authenticity and candidness makes her truly inspiring.
In 2019, Jill Martin graced the cover of BELLA, capturing hearts with her vibrant spirit and undeniable charisma. Fast forward to 2024, and Jill is once again at the forefront. I, like so many, have been affected by a cancer journey and this time, her story hit differently. It’s a celebration of courage and resilience that resonated deeply with me and one I hope we carry through the holiday season, a time of reflection and gratitude.
I am honored to have Jill Martin return to BELLA, opening up about her transformative journey as a cancer survivor.
Her story is one of hope and determination, embodying the strength of the human spirit in the face of life's most challenging battles. Jill has emerged from this experience with a renewed perspective, eager to inspire others with her story of survival and personal growth.
Grab your sherpa and lean into Jill's journey, exploring the lessons she's learned, the support that lifted her during her fight, and the newfound purpose that leads her into a hopeful future. This candid conversation with Jill is a reminder of the miracles that can happen when courage meets perseverance.
Jill, reflecting on your very first BELLA Magazine cover, you've come full circle. How has your personal and professional journey shifted since then, especially in light of your cancer experience?
That seems like a lifetime ago. It was such an honor to grace the cover of Bella magazine for the first time with all of those incredible people & innovators. It’s interesting, my oncologist told me that many survivors define their lives as “before and after cancer.” I think many people going through trauma can relate to that- the concept of what happened before the “big thing” seems almost like it happened in a prior life. When I look at that cover, as beautiful as it is, it looks like a prior version of me. Not better, not worse, just different. This past year has been beyond earth- shattering for me but one of the silver linings that came out of this is I get to start over in a way. I get to improve on parts of my life that needed improving. Only people, places and things that belong in my life make it into this new version. I get to pick and choose what is important to me and who & what I want to surround myself with. Anything that doesn’t fit into my version of “happy and healthy” has no place in my life anymore. I felt like I had it together prior to cancer but it has really helped put everything into focus. I know what I like and what I don’t like….what I want and don’t want. It is like the blurriness went away.
Your openness about your cancer journey has been uplifting for many. What motivated you to share your story so candidly with the world?
I didn’t feel like there was an option. We share everything on the show: the good, the bad, the ugly, the hard.
I felt, with my platform, I had/have a responsibility to not only raise awareness but to acknowledge other people going through something similar that may not have the ability to share in the way that I can. People ask if it was hard doing it so publicly but honestly, I think it was easier. So many people suffer in silence and fight battles no one knows about. Most people treated me with such empathy and care and knew what I was going through…I didn’t have to live two separate lives which happens to a lot of people who keep their journeys close. Some people don’t have the option to do it or don’t make it public to protect his/her family. I respect any decision someone takes as the trauma is so severe. Whatever works for you and your family is the right way. For me, sharing my journey and helping others has been the light in this darkness that has gotten me through the worst of times.
How has facing cancer impacted your perspective on health and wellness, and what advice would you give to others going through similar challenges?
It is so hard. I can’t sugar coat this one. Cancer in my experience is more powerful than any of us. The physical and mental pain and trauma is hard to articulate. I think about chemotherapy every day. It is part of my life. Some people say over time it changes, but I do not see that for me. It is a part of me… actually, one I am very proud of. I thought the way I handled the past year was/is a reflection of how I was raised. I tried, even when I thought I wouldn’t make it through the day, to act with kindness, grace and gratitude. I saw so many people who were going through something similar whose prognosis was not like mine, it was worse. My heart aches for anyone going through this. I try to be available to talk to people who are months behind me in treatment with the energy I have while still protecting the love I need to give myself. The year after cancer has been harder for me. During surgeries and treatment I was literally just fighting for my life and now I feel like I am picking the pieces up around me. I always say I am a disco ball…all survivors are to me: a million pieces somehow put beautifully back together. My advice for anyone going through cancer or any trauma: ask for help when you need it; concentrate on silver linings as hard as that is; and make a decision to get up every day (when you can.) Every day, when I wake up, there is a fork in the road. I can either pull the covers up over my head and lay there (which, believe me, many days I would like that) or I get up and do something. My advice would be to keep it moving. Be your own best friend…and watch what you tell yourself…remember, you are always listening.
With your role on the Today Show, how do you balance the emotional demands of your personal journey with the responsibilities and excitement of your career?
I sleep. A lot. I have always loved sleeping and love alone time. I used to run 24/7 working, going out, running around. One of the silver linings to this mess is cancer has taught me to slow down. I have learned that saying no at times is just as important as saying yes. I love my work so much so it is not like my life is split. Any entrepreneur would tell you that. I actually developed my new line BY JILL MARTIN when I was going through treatment. I couldn’t run like I used to, so I decided to focus on my hero items and go narrow and deep with those.
Can you share some key life lessons or insights you've gained throughout your cancer journey that might inspire others dealing with difficult times?
Wow. So many life lessons…most of which I have known but were amplified over the past year: love hard; play hard; have fun; if you want something enough fight for it; don’t take easy wins for granted. Just appreciate them… and most of all be kind to everyone- you never know what someone is going through.
Given your passion for style and living well, has your approach to fashion and home design evolved during your health journey, and in what ways do you find these aspects healing or empowering?
I have always been a minimalist but again, this trait was amplified during my breast cancer journey. I believe in having quality over quantity. In every aspect of life- friends, jobs, stuff. For example, clutter works against you in my opinion. I would rather you have 10 amazing items in your home or closet then have 100 that are just “meh.” Everything should be a “10” and bring you happiness. If not, it goes…I think simplifying everything is really important. Everyone has a superpower. Stick with that superpower and stay in your lane…I think life starts to get more complicated when you aim for too much too fast. Concentrate on what you are good at and what you really love. I feel that is the most authentic way to live as your true self.
Looking ahead, what are the projects or initiatives you’re most passionate about, and how do you see yourself using your platform to make a difference in the lives of others?
Out of the challenges of the past year, a new business has emerged that I am super proud of. During my battle with breast cancer, despite continuing my work with the Today Show, my health restricted my studio time. Although my body wasn't as capable of keeping up its usual pace, my mind remained active and focused. I decided to leverage my unique strength: a mission to help people look and feel their best while staying comfortably stylish. So, I concentrated on four signature pieces, securing prestigious and fan-centric intellectual properties, and launched "The Best Store in the World by Jill Martin." We have the NBA, WNBA, most colleges, greek life and more. Every item on my site is designed to be worn anytime, is machine washable, and comes with a playful warning: "You may never want to take this off!"
I consider myself blessed; I've discovered silver linings amid a challenging year. I'm dedicated to using my platform to educate and advocate, creating products that inspire conversations about genetic testing—a process that saved my life. Helping even one person through this message is deeply fulfilling for me.
Now single and focused on her businesses, it’s clear that Jill’s passion for style, commitment to authenticity, and inspirational journey continue to resonate widely. Whether she’s sharing the latest fashion trends or personal stories of resilience and entrepreneurship, Jill's influence and warmth shine through.
For those looking to connect with Jill or stay updated on her latest projects, you can follow her on social @JillMartin, where she regularly engages with her audience and shares behind-the-scenes glimpses into her life.
Additionally, Jill's work can be seen on the "Today" show, where she provides fashion tips and lifestyle advice.
BY JILL MARTIN IS AVAILABLE AT JILLMARTIN.COM
Interview and Creative Direction by Vanessa Coppes
Assistance to the EIC Aseel Shilleh
Photography By Nigel Barker
Photography Assistance by Toby Sprague, Christian Ern and Tommy Kerns
Makeup by Chris Lanston
Hair by Vinicius Clemente
Stylists Mindy Shapiro + Paula Orlan
Styling + Shoot Assistance by Danielle Kiriakos + Kiera Gainer
Behind the Scenes Photography and Videography by Miguel Pichardo
Location, The Ellington on Broadway
Justin Alexander Warshaw: A Visionary Designer Redefining Bridal Fashion
Renowned wedding gown designer Justin Alexander has captivated brides since 1946, beginning with T&G Bridal in Brooklyn, New York. At a time when women embraced fashion as a powerful form of self-expression, Alexander quickly established himself as a key player in the bridal fashion industry. Today, Justin Alexander has evolved into a contemporary brand offering mid- to high-end bridal gowns and accessories that blend vintage inspirations with modern details.
Interview by Jennifer MacLellan
Creative Direction by Vanessa Coppes
Photography by Michelle Behre
Videography by Miguel Pichardo
Assistance by Jonathan Calixto, Aseel Shilleh, Milan Grooms
Renowned wedding gown designer Justin Alexander has captivated brides since 1946, beginning with T&G Bridal in Brooklyn, New York. At a time when women embraced fashion as a powerful form of self-expression, Alexander quickly established himself as a key player in the bridal fashion industry. Today, Justin Alexander has evolved into a contemporary brand offering mid- to high-end bridal gowns and accessories that blend vintage inspirations with modern details.
Recognizing the diverse tastes of today’s brides, Justin Alexander features a range of collections, including the esteemed Justin Alexander Signature, romantic Adore by Justin Alexander, and whimsical Lillian West. Each gown is distinguished by stunning silhouettes, intricate necklines, and exceptional attention to detail.
This season, Justin Alexander presents the enchanting Nocturne Symphony collection, a tribute to the beauty of the night designed for the bold bride. With signature modern seaming and structured corsets, the collection features exaggerated basque waists and couture volume. Nocturne Symphony invites brides to shine on their special day, creating a breathtaking composition of artistry and design for Fall/Winter 2025.
Justin Alexander debuted in 1946 and is a family business that you have taken the helm of. Tell our readers how the business has evolved and how you’ve put your own spin on the brand.
Justin Alexander began as a family business in 1946, founded by my grandparents, Ted and Shirley. They started with a small bridal company in Brooklyn, New York, and over the decades, the business evolved significantly. Initially focused on accessories, we shifted our attention to wedding dresses in the early 1980s, which marked a pivotal moment in our history.
Taking the helm of this legacy, I have aimed to blend our timeless elegance with contemporary trends. We have expanded our brand to include multiple collections, each catering to different styles and preferences. For instance, Justin Alexander Signature offers luxurious, fashion-forward designs, whilst Adore by Justin Alexander targets the chic, modern bride.
My focus has been on maintaining the high standards of craftsmanship and quality that our brand is known for, while also embracing innovation. This includes modernizing our marketing strategies, enhancing our digital presence, and ensuring our designs reflect the latest trends without losing the classic charm that defines Justin Alexander.
In addition to Justin Alexander, the company also includes Justin Alexander Signature, Adore by Justin Alexander, accessories, and more. How do you cater to different brides with each of these extensions of the brand?
We have five core brands under the Justin Alexander Group including Justin Alexander, Justin Alexander Signature, Adore by Justin Alexander, Lillian West, and Sincerity. Each of these brands cater to the diverse tastes and preferences of brides. By offering a variety of collections, we ensure that every bride can find a gown that reflects her personal style and vision for her special day.
Justin Alexander: This line focuses on timeless elegance and classic designs, perfect for brides who appreciate traditional and sophisticated styles.
Justin Alexander Signature: This collection is for the fashion-forward bride who desires luxurious fabrics, intricate details, and a modern twist on classic silhouettes.
Adore by Justin Alexander: Targeting the chic and trendy bride, this line offers contemporary designs that are both stylish and accessible.
Lillian West: The Lillian West collection is known for its bohemian-inspired, laid-back elegance.
Sincerity: The Sincerity Bridal collection is designed for the charismatic and classic bride who dreams of a fairy-tale wedding.
Thanks + Goodluck Accessories: From veils to detachable sleeves, the accessories line allows brides to personalize their look and add unique touches to their wedding ensemble.
Where do you draw your inspiration when creating a new design or collection? Any specific inspiration for your latest collection, Nocturne Symphony?
The Fall/Winter 2025 Justin Alexander Signature collection, “Nocturne Symphony,” draws its inspiration from the night, crafted for the bride who dares to dream. This collection features modern seaming and structured corsets, combined with unexpected elements like exaggerated Basque waists and couture volume. The gowns are adorned with intricate 3D florals, laser-cut appliqués, and rich floral jacquards. Silver crystal diamantes, pearls, and corded Alençon laces add a touch of brilliance, creating a dazzling, beautifully orchestrated composition for Fall/Winter 2025.
When creating new designs, I draw inspiration from various sources, including vintage couture, red carpet fashion, and my travels. Additionally, the work we do at trunk shows and the feedback we receive from brides are invaluable. Engaging directly with brides helps ensure our designs meet their desires and expectations.
As a Justin Alexander bride myself, I fell in love with how you “marry” contemporary with classic and your designs are timeless, elegant, and flattering. Overall, how would you describe the style of a #JABride?
A #JABride is elegant, unique, and meticulously crafted. I envision a bride who embraces her individuality and sees her wedding gown as an extension of her personal style and spirit. The #JA Bride appreciates luxury and the detailed couture craftsmanship that goes into each gown.
What are a few of your favorite trends in bridal right now and what do you see coming next?
I am excited that jacquards and brocades are trending right now, and we’ve been incorporating them into our collection. It’s not just about the fabric; silhouettes are evolving too. I’m particularly excited about the resurgence of drop and Basque waistlines, which were out of favor for many seasons but are now a huge trend.
Another technique I am enthusiastic about is using laser-cut satin in place of lace. This floral detail is fresh and innovative.
Additionally, corset backs are making a comeback. While all our dresses can be customized with either a corset or a zipper, we’re really loving the corset look this season. The bridal fashion world is experiencing a renaissance, with a return to classic, timeless styles that evoke elegance and tradition.
With international success, and no signs of slowing down, what can we expect from Justin Alexander in the future?
Justin Alexander Group is introducing Justin Alexander Studio, blending the convenience of rapid online shopping with the personalized touch of traditional bridal alterations. The platform features custom occasion wear delivered in just two weeks, plus exclusive offerings in scents, lingerie, and more. We see this as an opportunity not only to cater even more to our brides and bridal party but also expand our reach beyond bridal to a new consumer.
For more, visit JustinAlexander.com and follow along on Instagram @justinalexander.
Lisa Ann Walter: Versatility and Relentless Work Ethic
Entertainer extraordinaire Lisa Ann Walter has carved a remarkable path through television, film, and the stage, becoming a fixture in American comedy and drama. With a dynamic career that spans decades, Walter is currently captivating audiences as Melissa Schemmenti in ABC's #1 show, "Abbott Elementary." The Emmy-nominated, SAG Award-winning comedy series, created by Quinta Brunson, stands as a heartfelt tribute to the hardworking teachers and staff in our nation's schools, a world close to Walter's heart—as her mother was once a dedicated public school teacher in Washington, D.C.
Entertainer extraordinaire Lisa Ann Walter has carved a remarkable path through television, film, and the stage, becoming a fixture in American comedy and drama. With a dynamic career that spans decades, Walter is currently captivating audiences as Melissa Schemmenti in ABC's #1 show, "Abbott Elementary." The Emmy-nominated, SAG Award-winning comedy series, created by Quinta Brunson, stands as a heartfelt tribute to the hardworking teachers and staff in our nation's schools, a world close to Walter's heart—as her mother was once a dedicated public school teacher in Washington, D.C.
Walter’s film career is studded with memorable roles, including her standout performance as Chessy in "The Parent Trap" alongside Dennis Quaid and her role as Bobbie in "Shall We Dance" opposite Richard Gere. She's also starred in blockbuster hits like "Bruce Almighty" with Jim Carrey and Jennifer Aniston, Spielberg's "War of the Worlds" featuring Tom Cruise, and the Lionsgate action-comedy "Killers," where she reveled in stunt-driving a Mustang and shooting a Glock with Ashton Kutcher.
Her versatility shines through with roles in films like "Drillbit Taylor," starring Owen Wilson, "Eddie" with Whoopi Goldberg, and "The Trouble with Dee Dee," a performance that earned her six Festival Best Actress Awards. On television, Walter's comedy genius led her to co-create, produce, and star in network sitcoms like Fox's "My Wildest Dreams" and ABC's "Life's Work," which garnered an average of 19 million viewers per week during its premiere season. Her creative prowess further extended to her single-camera series "Bitter" and the executive-produced "The More Things Change," a half-hour comedy about an everyday trans woman that debuted at Outfest 2019.
Behind the camera, Walter has flexed her creative muscles as a Creative Executive Producer and showrunner for top factual companies like 495 Productions, Magical Elves, and Propagate. She created and produced "Dance Your Ass Off," a hit dance/weight-loss competition series with record-breaking premieres on Oxygen, and the innovative female stunt/comedy web series "Gonzo Girlz," which attracted 6 million unique views per episode.
In addition to her on-screen accomplishments, Walter is an acclaimed author. Her comedic memoir, "The Best Thing About My Ass Is That It’s Behind Me," takes a humorous perspective on her journey through Hollywood’s size-0 culture, landing at #13 on the New York Times Comedic Essays Bestseller List.
However, amidst all her achievements, Lisa Ann Walter takes the most pride in balancing her thriving career with being a dedicated mom of four. As she juggles her roles with grace and humor, she muses that she keeps "one foot on the red carpet and the other at Costco"—a testament to her down-to-earth nature and unparalleled work-life balance. Today, we’re honored to feature Lisa Ann Walter on the cover of BELLA Magazine’s Arts and Culture issue, celebrating her vibrant career and unwavering passion for entertainment.
Join us for an in-depth conversation as we delve into her illustrious career, her thoughts on the evolving landscape of comedy and drama, and the personal drive behind her relentless success.
Early Inspirations.
Growing up, who were some of your biggest influences in the arts and culture sphere, and how did they shape your career aspirations?
I was allowed to stay up and watch the show “Laugh In”. I wasn’t supposed to be watching it, it was on VERY late for a kid that was five- or six-years-old (like nine or ten o’clock), but my father let me stay up and watch it because he was a big comedy fan. So, I watched the funny women of that time, Lily Tomin, Goldie Hawn, Ruth Buzzi, Jo Anne Worley, Judy Carne be hilarious, and it made me think, “This is something that could be a job. You could have a job being funny, as a woman.”
I said this to George Schlatter when I met him at a big party for him years later, I said, “This is what made me know I could have a career being funny as a woman” and he said, “In fact, being a woman helps.”
So it was them on Laugh-In, and also the female movie stars of the time, like Whoopi Goldberg, Goldie Hawn, Bette Midler, Dolly Parton, Lily Tomlin, Jane Fonda, all of those women who made me think, “This is something I could do. I want to do that, that looks fun.”
Career Evolution.
Your career spans acting, comedy, producing, and writing. How have you seen your artistic expression evolve over the years, and what has driven that evolution?
I started out as an actress, and that’s all I thought I would do. I thought I’d be a stage actress, if I was lucky, I’d become a repertory member of Arena Stage or the Guthrie or something fancy like that. I loved doing plays, I loved doing musicals. But when I moved to New York to be an actress, I got pregnant with my first child, and so I segued.
I had a friend who I went to Catholic University with to study acting, learning about the Greek Classics, and Shakespeare, a real dedicated sort of conservatory education, but there was also a big comedy boom happening at the time in New York City, and she said, “You should be doing this.”
So, I started putting together material about being a mom and having babies, and I was still so young. Compared to my college educated friends, having a baby that young was really unusual.
So, I started doing stand-up and developing that act, and that led to being offered to star in, and create television shows, and I had already been writing for stand-up and other things, so I started creating TV Shows and then unscripted series, and I’m back to acting on a series, but also continued to produce both unscripted and scripted television.
The thing that was important was that I never limited myself. I never said, “Oh you can’t do more than one thing,” or “What makes you think you’re going to be taken seriously,” or “I better just focus on THIS side of it” I just did ALL of it.
I say that to everybody. I started at a time when people couldn’t make an entire movie on their cell phone, but now they can, there’s no excuse NOT to do all of it.
Balancing Roles.
As someone who wears many hats in the entertainment industry, how do you balance these various roles, and what do you find most fulfilling about each one?
I love all of it. I don’t limit one for the other.
It’s so funny, because even though I’m on a show where for the first time in my entire career, I feel a modicum of safety because there’s enough money coming in that I don’t feel like I’m in a panic, always looking for, “What’s the job after this one,” it doesn’t matter. I still fill all my free time creating.
I went back to doing stand-up in the past year and a half/two years, and then did a comedy special for the same reason I started comedy in the first place, there were things that I feel compelled to say, I HAVE to say them. It is my responsibility as an artist to talk about certain things, but it’s also what gives me joy.
So the balancing act is really just trying to remember all the things that I have to do. That’s honestly what it is. The challenge is not forgetting meetings, and things that are important.
Iconic Characters.
You've played a variety of memorable characters throughout your career. Which role has been the most rewarding for you, and why?
There have been many that have been rewarding for different reasons.
A lot of people remember me and love me from, “The Parent Trap” so that carries its own kind of reward to be associated with a character that people feel safe with and love, and tell me literally every single day how much they love the movie, and how much they love me in the movie, and how they still feel such a deep connection with that character. There’s nothing more rewarding for an actor than to feel like you’ve been THAT important in the development of so many people’s lives.
A lot of LGBTQ+ kids have written me and told me that they felt safe and accepted by my character and that wasn’t even part of the movie, but they just felt like I would love them, no matter what. So, I try to respond to as many people as I can when they write me about that.
What I did with “Dance Your Ass Off” was incredibly rewarding because I had struggled my whole life with body image and with various eating disorders, and to be able to do a TV show that says to people, “Be the best version of yourself” and that “there isn’t some ‘magic number’ you have to be, just move and be happy” that was really rewarding as a creator.
I’m really proud of the television shows that I created, in particular “Life’s Work” on ABC, because I thought, and still think, that was the first show that actually explored the life of a working mother, the way it really is, not the four hours between a woman coming home with some briefcase and says, “Whoo! It was a bear at work today” and then the kids go to bed. Life takes place all day long, including your job.
The one that I really felt the proudest of, in terms of the execution and the job itself was, “Shall We Dance” which was a movie that was huge in Europe, it was not as big here, but it actually started the ballroom dance craze in this country. It was with Richard Gere and Jennifer Lopez, and I did an enormous amount of ballroom dance training, which is something I did coming up, I was a disco dancer, I taught at Arthur Murray all different ballroom styles, and I was so proud of the job that I did learning how to do those very difficult dances, and also the acting I did, which for a while Miramax had me positioned to be nominated for the Best Supporting Oscar, but then they ditched us for “Finding Neverland” (what the Hell?), but anyway, I was really proud of that as well.
And of course, there’s Melissa Schemmenti, can’t forget Melissa. It’s extremely rewarding to come into a character like that, at this stage in my career.
Cultural Impact.
In your opinion, how can arts and entertainment serve as powerful tools for social change and cultural awareness in today’s world?
Personally, because it’s what I do, and I also have seen it in action, humor is an incredibly compact, and effective way to get points across without being didactic. It’s great to do a story and have people just get what the message was without ham-fisting it, like “HERE’S THE MESSAGE”. It’s effective, it’s fun, I like we get to do it on Abbott, and I love that I get to do it with stand-up.
I always say the reason why the Court Jester was the most powerful person in court was because he was the one who could tell the truth, and the King wouldn’t kill him because he made it funny (well, USUALLY the King wouldn’t kill him).
Future Projects.
What upcoming projects are you most excited about and how do you see them contributing to your legacy in the arts and culture community?
For all the years that I did stand-up professionally (7 years) as my main job, as the breadwinner for our family, I stopped doing it when I came to Hollywood and started creating shows because I didn’t have time. Between the writer’s room, promoting the show, and starring in it, I was busy all the time, but I went back to it over the course of the years between jobs, and more recently every weekend that I could, and finally for the first time I did a comedy special. Actually, it was Sherly Lee Ralph’s idea, she produced it with me, and we directed it, and it was incredibly rewarding, it’s being edited now, and I’m really proud of it.
There’s also an unscripted series that is being developed as we speak, and I can’t wait for that to come out, but I can’t tell you what it’s about, but it’s with my bestie, Elaine Hendrix, from the Parent Trap.
Advice for Aspiring Artists.
What advice would you give to aspiring artists who want to make a meaningful impact in the arts and entertainment industry?
This is going to sound trite, and I don’t want to sound like I’m giving a BS answer of, “Be authentically yourself”, but that’s true.
If you spend all your time, writing a piece, shooting a movie/short, or having a proof of concept that you’re trying to sell, any time you create something with the idea of “here’s what they’re buying” just know this… Somewhere in Hollywood there’s a meeting going on, as we speak, where they’re all sitting down and deciding that whatever it is that they’re making now, that ‘everyone is buying’, “we’re not doing anymore of that, we’re going to do the complete opposite now.” So, you’re never going to be ahead of the game by doing that.
You stand a much better chance doing something that’s authentically you. Make it incredibly powerful, doing what Phoebe Waller Bridge did with “Fleabag” and just making your art.
The reason why I believe comics wind up selling shows, or having shows developed around “their voice” is because that is authentically them, it’s truth. It’s based on their personal experience, but also what they know makes America laugh, and then they can truthfully bring it to the marketplace and say, “I know this person, this is real” and it becomes something that’s relatable, because we can all recognize garbage and untruth.
Also, I have to say this, whenever people reach out and say, “You’re a famous actress, how do I become that?” like there’s a direct A-Z line, and there isn’t.
I didn’t know this show was going to happen at this phase of my life. Every other month I was going to give up and go find a house in Atlanta, and live near to my bestie Elaine, or try to find some other job.
There’s no direct line, and there’s no guarantee. You have to be willing to live with this as your goal, some kind of survival job, and you have to dedicate yourself to it and not giving up. That’s the only secret. You can’t give up, and you can’t start out as a star.
Go find a local theater and learn how to actually act, and you learn how to support the other departments, learn to respect costumes, and hair and make-up, and sets, and producing, and the stage manager, and everybody else who goes into making a production is important to it, and you have to learn those departments and respect them. Once you do that, AND you can act, then you move on to the next step.
Don’t go to Hollywood thinking, “I’m going to walk down Hollywood Blvd and someone’s going to see me in a tight outfit, and now I’m a star.” I’m not saying it never happens, I’m just saying you better not bank on it.
Photography by Ben Cope.
Dr. Maye Musk: A Life of Integrity, Passion + Fashion
Maye is an iconic supermodel, a proud grandmother, a Doctor of Dietetics, and a successful entrepreneur. Originally from Saskatchewan, Canada, she began her modeling career at the tender age of 15 in South Africa and has since worked with esteemed brands, publications, and media outlets across the globe for over six decades.
Maye is an iconic supermodel, a proud grandmother, a Doctor of Dietetics, and a successful entrepreneur. Originally from Saskatchewan, Canada, she began her modeling career at the tender age of 15 in South Africa and has since worked with esteemed brands, publications, and media outlets across the globe for over six decades.
Among her impressive accolades, Maye has graced the covers of prestigious magazines such as Vogue, Marie Claire, Elle, InStyle, Sports Illustrated, WWD, Harper's Bazaar, and now BELLA. She has also been featured in high-profile campaigns for brands like Clinique, Revlon, Swarovski, Moncler, Tommy Hilfiger, Target, Ferragamo, Moschino, and Tiffany & Co., besides being a brand ambassador for Dior Beauty and the face of CoverGirl.
On the runways, she has dazzled audiences at international Fashion Weeks, showcasing designs from Philipp Plein, Marc Cain, Zero + Maria Cornejo, Peter Dundas, as well as numerous Korean and Chinese brands. Maye's silver-haired beauty has also made a memorable appearance in Beyoncé's "Haunted" music video and proudly adorned four billboards in Times Square.
In addition to her illustrious modeling career, Maye Musk is a celebrated author. Her book, "A Woman Makes a Plan," is an international bestseller, published in over 100 countries and translated into more than 32 languages, with more on the way.
With over 45 years of experience, Maye has successfully run her own nutrition business across eight cities and three countries. She has excelled in her field in three countries, serving as the first Representative of the Consulting Dietitians of Southern Africa, President of the Consulting Dietitians of Canada, and Chair of the Nutrition Entrepreneurs, Academy of Dietetics and Nutrition in the USA, where she also received the Outstanding Nutrition Entrepreneur Award.
In this very special Fashion issue of Bella Magazine, I had the privilege of sitting down with the extraordinary Maye Musk. Join us in celebrating her incredible journey in this exclusive cover story.
Career Evolution.
Dr. Maye Musk, you’ve had an incredible career spanning over five decades. Can you take us through your journey in the modeling industry and how it has evolved over the years?
I have written a lot about my modeling career in my book, “A Woman Makes a Plan” (Penguin Random House). Many models relate as they have been through the same experiences.
In the '60s, as a teen model in Pretoria, South Africa, modeling was very part-time, as I was focused on my school and university. Also, schools and universities were very strict. You couldn’t take off classes to do a modeling job, and it wasn’t expected of me either. I would model on weekends, evenings, and holidays. I never tried to push my modeling career as I knew it would be over by 18. I was surprised to know I lasted until I graduated at 21. I then pursued my career as a dietitian for about eight months before getting married and having three children in three years.
At the age of 28, I was again asked to model because they needed a mother-of-the-bride in their shows. They also needed an older model for many jobs. This was unexpected.
In the '60s and '70s, I did my own hair and makeup for most jobs.
When I ran away with my three kids to a smaller town and got divorced, my ex-husband stole all my savings. I was financially desperate. I approached the top model agency, and they took me on right away. That was a huge surprise as I was 31 years old. The modeling income helped a lot, as my dietetics practice took a while before doctors sent me their patients.
At 41, I moved to Toronto and signed with an agency. I was completely surprised about the popularity of an older woman. There was no competition because I was the only model who could do runway for all the big bridal shows. I was also doing a lot of print work and television commercials. I didn’t let it interfere with my dietetics practice, which was my stable income. I wouldn’t do more than four days per month and needed three weeks notice, as I didn’t want to move my patients' appointments.
At 47, I moved to San Francisco and did the Saturday morning Nordstrom shows in different cities, print work, and a fabulous modeling job in the South China Seas on a cruise ship. I was also a fit and showroom model, and hand and foot model. Whatever worked.
When I moved to New York at 50, for the first time I had competition. There were other women my age. Also, all jobs were very well paid, and they did my hair and makeup. I continued to work whenever they needed me while working hard on my private practice.
At 63, I moved to Los Angeles to help my daughter with her two babies and stayed for eight years. I did model quite a lot, and my dietetics practice did well in the beginning. Then surprisingly, I was doing a lot of editorials. So patients would bring in magazines for me to sign and be quite aggressive about it when I would say this is not what they booked an appointment for. So, I closed my practice and taught public health at a private school. However, modeling was increasing, including a four-year contract for CoverGirl. This interfered with my teaching, so I had to resign.
At 70, a literary agent convinced me to write a book about my life. I didn’t think I had a story to tell, and I didn’t really want to share my life. My children said it’s a good idea and I should write about my struggles. That was hard. However, my book is now in 32 languages and 100 countries and doing very well, so it was a good idea.
At 71, I moved back to New York and am busier than ever. That’s why my hashtag is #ItsGreatToBe76.
Thank you for asking me to be on the cover of BELLA magazine.
Breaking Age Barriers.
You’ve shattered many age-related stereotypes in the fashion industry. How do you view the current representation of older models, and what more can be done to embrace diversity in this context?
I am absolutely loving the embracement of older models. There are quite a few. I always tell all models to spend a lot of time on social media as that is where we get our work.
I’ve had a lot of model agents who have been dreadful, incompetent, and lazy, so I no longer sign exclusively to any agency. If an agency books me, that’s fine. Otherwise, my manager, Anna Sherman, handles my bookings more efficiently.
Fashion Icon.
You’ve become a fashion icon and inspiration to many. How do you define your personal style, and what influences your fashion choices?
As you have read, I’m a scientist with two Master of Science degrees and a PhD. I think I’m okay with my personal style, but I’m reminded many times that I’m not. I can’t be good at everything, so I depend on stylists. They make me look cool and trendy.
Advice for Aspiring Models.
What advice would you give to young aspiring models who look up to you and want to enter the fashion industry?
If you want to be a model, get onto social media and let people know how special you are, how relevant you are, and definitely worth a booking. You can still start with agents because that gives you more credibility, and they have better jobs.
Role of Wellness and Health.
Your background as a dietitian and nutritionist suggests you value health and wellness. How do you maintain your health and beauty regimen, and how has it impacted your career?
As I’ve said in my book, I’m not a naturally lean person. I have to eat carefully to maintain my weight and be a size 4. I was a size 6 or 8 for most of my life and then, for about six years, a size 12.
This was when I was the first plus-size model in South Africa and was very popular. However, being overweight led to a sore back, sore knees, and high cholesterol. I could either go on medication and painkillers, with side effects, or get my diet under control. I now follow a flexitarian diet, enjoy my food, and stay a steady size 4.
Life Lessons.
What are some of the most important life lessons you’ve learned throughout your career, and how have they shaped you into the person you are today?
What I have found throughout my modeling career is that the industry can knock your confidence out of you. Sometimes, you get bad agents and nobody wants to book you. Move on quicker than I did. You can get out of a contract, although they try to tie you down so they can send your clients to other models. When I share this story, many models relate. There are some good modeling agents too, so don’t be too concerned about my negative experiences. Don’t be afraid; you can find a good team who will believe in you and will find you great jobs!
Future Goals.
With so many achievements under your belt, what’s next for you personally and professionally?
Well, with my book doing so well, I’m getting many more speaking engagements as well as modeling jobs around the world. It is quite fabulous. I will continue to work on social media for at least four hours per day, interacting with other models and designers to stay relevant and give women of all ages hope. My mom stopped working at 96; I hope to go longer than that.
Beyond her professional achievements, Maye remains fervently dedicated to philanthropic pursuits, devoting significant time and energy to the non-profit organization BigGreen.org. Truly encapsulating the notion that age is just a number, Maye's hashtag, #ItsGreatToBe76, speaks volumes of her vibrant and inspiring spirit.
To learn more and follow along, visit MayeMusk.com!
Interview and Creative Direction by Vanessa Coppes
Assistance to the EIC Jennifer MacLellan + Jonathan Calixto
Photography By Nigel Barker
Photography Assistance by Toby Sprague + Austin Daniells
Makeup by Chris Lanston
Hair by Katie Rote
Stylists Mindy Shapiro + Paula Orlan
Styling Assistance by Daniela Uribe, Martha Luna, Ceylone Grooms + Milan Grooms
Behind the Scenes Photography and Videography by Michelle Behre + Miguel Pichardo
Shoot Assistance by Meghan Connolly + Darcie Virtue
Location, Virgin Hotels NYC
BELLA insider’s Summer Issue Cover Story: The Queen of Summer, Teresa Giudice
The most authentic Housewife from hit reality TV franchise, The Real Housewives of New Jersey, a best-selling author featured in The New York Times, an entrepreneur, a mother of four, and a host of TV entertainment, Teresa Giudice is a true “Jersey Girl.” She combines her affection for family and friends with style and the latest fashion. From the reality TV spotlight to brand endorsements, best-selling books, and an advocacy for health, fitness, charity, and of course, her family, Teresa is aptly dubbed the “O.G.” Gracing the cover of our Summer Issue, Teresa shares her favorite seasonal styles, family and relationship insights, and her love of the Jersey Shore…
Creative Direction by Vanessa Coppes
Interview by M. Roman
Editorial Assistance by Jennifer MacLellan
Photography by Michelle Behre Videography by Miguel Pichardo
Hair + Makeup by Lucia Casazza
Styling by Mindy Gura + Paula Orlan, The Style Duo
Photoshoot Assistance by Dr. James Mercer, Sara Paige
Location: The Whitechapel Project in Long Branch, NJ
Florals: Peter James Florals
The “O.G.” of reality television, Teresa Giudice is the queen of summer at the Jersey Shore.
The most authentic Housewife from hit reality TV franchise, The Real Housewives of New Jersey, a best-selling author featured in The New York Times, an entrepreneur, a mother of four, and a host of TV entertainment, Teresa Giudice is a true “Jersey Girl.” She combines her affection for family and friends with style and the latest fashion. From the reality TV spotlight to brand endorsements, best-selling books, and an advocacy for health, fitness, charity, and of course, her family, Teresa is aptly dubbed the “O.G.” Gracing the cover of our Summer Issue, Teresa shares her favorite seasonal styles, family and relationship insights, and her love of the Jersey Shore…
It was incredible spending the day with you, and I wonder, what was your favorite look from the shoot?
I really love the long pink gown. I thought it was so feminine and sexy. And I loved the green dress. The way it glistened in the sun was so beautiful.
Describe from your point of view, the perfect summer in Jersey?
Renting a shore house in Lavalette or Ortley and enjoying the beach during the day and grilling or going out to dinner at night, while spending time with my loved ones.
As mentioned during the shoot, you love summer fashion and beauty. Tell our readers your go-to “Jersey Girl” summer look.
My favorite look would be a bikini at the beach and a cute two-piece set or a cute summer dress – fitted or flowy. For beauty products, I love the IT Cosmetics tinted moisturizer with SPF.
Switching gears a bit, you truly light up with love when mentioning Louie, and this summer marks two years of marriage. How is this whole new chapter with him?
Exciting, fresh, fun, and full of adventure.
Now having a combined family, Louie with his two boys and you and your girls, how do they feel having step-siblings? Is it a girl vs. boy household?
It’s a huge, blended family! Everyone plays their part and it’s just easy and works. I’m very grateful. And my daughters and Louie’s sons really love having each other in their lives. We truly are the Brady Bunch. And let’s not forget our four dogs!
We’ve seen your girls blossom in front of our eyes into beautiful young adults. Do you consider yourself a stern parent or do you take more of a best friend approach?
I take more of a best friend approach for sure. When I must, of course I can be strict, but I want them to be able to talk to me about anything.
Behind what people see play out on TV, let’s not forget to mention the successful businesswoman you are! With multiple New York Times best-sellers, appearances throughout different shows, and various products, what venture brings you the most joy?
My cookbooks because it feels like I have a piece of my mom with me.
And “The Real Housewives of New Jersey,” because it feels like I have home movies of my kids growing up and my parents, since they are no longer with us. Also, I love having my podcast, Turning the Tables with Teresa Giudice, because viewers really get to me know me on a more personal level.
Has there been an area of business you’d like to tap into, that you haven’t already?
I am very interested in the idea of partnering within the fashion and beauty industries. I have a degree in fashion marketing, and it’s always been a huge passion of mine.
If the cameras were to stop, and you could fully live away from millions of viewers’ screens, without people’s judgment or comments, would you be happy?
This is my job, and I love that it’s been a part of my life for so long. No one wants to be judged, but I respect that everyone has their own opinion.
Teresa, thank you so much for your time. I would like to let our readers know that it was such a pleasure working with you the day of your shoot. If you could finish with one thing, you’d like people to know about you, what would it be?
I just want people to know that I’m fun-loving, full of life and laughter, and I truly just go with the flow!
Unapologetically Fierce, Drag Queens Leading the Way
Charisma, uniqueness, nerve, and talent are some of the words used to describe the talented drag queens seen on the hit competition show, RuPaul's Drag Race. Sixteen seasons, multiple franchises throughout the world, and over 100 drag queens introduced to viewers, yet drag is still facing possible bans throughout the country.
Charisma, uniqueness, nerve, and talent are some of the words used to describe the talented drag queens seen on the hit competition show, RuPaul's Drag Race. Sixteen seasons, multiple franchises throughout the world, and over 100 drag queens introduced to viewers, yet drag is still facing possible bans throughout the country.
Creative Direction by Vanessa Coppes
Interview By Jonathan Calixto
For more information contact Jan Terry - Jan@SpectrumTalentAgency.com
For three queens, Brita Filter (season 12), Thorgy Thor (season 8), and Rosé (season 13), gracing the main stage was only the beginning, and since being on the show they have added new adjectives when you think of drag: representation, inspirational, and empowering.
Sharing how they discovered the art of drag, why being prideful is more important than ever, and even looking back at their journey on Drag Race, get to know our cover stars Brita Filter, Thorgy Thor, and Rosé.
Rosé
When and how did you discover drag?
I discovered drag as a child in the early 90s when I lived in the UK — seeing Dame Edna on TV! I was totally fascinated by her bright purple hair and enormous bejeweled glasses.
With laws trying to ban drag in different states, why is being loud and proud more important than ever?
Drag is being banned because it has become popular and visible enough to disrupt a way of life which excludes queer people. We always have two options. We either hide — and let them win, or we stand tall and firm in the fact that we are here, we’ve always been here, and we always will be here. Pride is the spine of the battle against our erasure.
Any favorite moment or experience you’ve had in your drag career?
The most fulfilling experience of my drag career so far has been being celebrated as a finalist on RuPaul’s Drag Race! It completely changed my life.
What is your biggest inspiration in your drag?
Ferocious women, and really, anyone brave enough to upset what society has deemed acceptable.
What does Pride mean to you?
Pride is self-love. Being proud of who you are is a choice, and a way of life.
Brita Filter
When and how did you discover drag?
By the age of 12, I was obsessed with Broadway and musical theatre. It was my entire personality. I remember hearing about the musical Rent and begging my parents to buy the two-disc sets. The show's character Angel Dumott Schunard is a drag queen. I didn't know what a drag queen was at that time, but I knew I related to the character being a strong individual who wasn't afraid of being themselves and embraced their femininity.
With laws trying to ban drag in different states, why is being loud and proud more important than ever?
t's important to be louder and prouder than ever because there are people who are actively trying to take away our rights as LGBTQ+ individuals. It's important for the world to know that we exist and we aren't going anywhere.
Any favorite moment or experience you’ve had in your drag career?
I would say winning NYC's ENTERTAINER OF THE YEAR! It is an award voted on by your peers, it meant the most to be recognized by other people within my community.
What is the biggest lesson you walked away with from your Drag Race experience?
It took me a few years after Drag Race to learn this lesson...Stop searching for validation from other people and look within to find it. I was always so concerned with what other people thought of me, but at the end of the day, it doesn't matter what others think, just what I think. I do drag for me, not for anyone else.
What does Pride mean to you?
Pride is not just a season or a month. It's an everyday thing; I am proud to be who I am every single day of my life and I hope others can see that as well. Life is too short to have regrets.
Thorgy Thor
When and how did you discover drag?
For as long as I can remember, I have enjoyed being a little entertainer...it's in my DNA! There is picture and film evidence of me as a little boy doing choreographed dances for family backyard parties on Long Island wearing shiny costumes. This year marks my 21st year of "doing" drag. As a performer, my first dabble was as Frank-N-Furter in the Rocky Horror Picture Show. I caught the bug for costumes and gender bending, and after that, I was obsessed. After conservatory, I moved into Brooklyn and started working 7 nights a week wherever they would hire me! At that time, you could count on one hand how many drag performers there were in Brooklyn. I was one of the first, and it has exploded since then into a thriving culture! There was no one there to show me "how" to put together a show, so I just made it up and kept going!
With laws trying to ban drag in different states, why is being loud and proud more important than ever?
Listen, I don't think drag is for everyone, and that's ok. I'm not pushing my ideas or lifestyle onto anyone else, nor challenging their beliefs. However, no one should tell me how to express myself on this earth...there is room for everybody to grow. I am an intelligent, rational, artistic ADHD Gemini musician from Long Island. I am also an adult and have friends from all kinds of backgrounds and experiences. I can perform an adult comedy show on a Saturday night, play violin at the Lincoln Center, and then read to children at a library in a bright, sparkly costume. To children, I am a superhero cartoon character inspiring self-confidence and adventure! As a performer, it's called range.
Any favorite moment or experience you’ve had in your drag career?
After Drag Race Season 8, I traveled all over the place... I will absolutely never forget performing at Kalamazoo, Michigan's pride festival outdoors. I performed a 13-minute Whitney Houston megamix for 40,000 people screaming their heads off, and I said to myself... this is pretty major. Fast forward a few years, and I performed my first 'Thorgy and the Thorchestra' show with Symphony Nova Scotia.
It was a 4,000-seat sold-out show, and I cried afterward. I have gone on to perform violin with over 30 major symphony orchestras worldwide, and I don't plan to stop anytime soon!
From Drag Race to Dragnificent and performances/shows you’ve been a part of, drag brings happiness and joy to so many people. What has it brought to you?
Back problems. I joke, but yes. I give 100% of myself to the art of drag and always strive to collaborate and challenge myself. As a discipline, it combines so many different mediums of art and entertainment. I love making people laugh and showing off and being the center of attention as a control freak... and I love the free drinks!
What does Pride mean to you?
I am proud of my Norwegian heritage. I am proud of myself for working my butt off to continue to be an amazing musician, and I am proud to be unapologetically and authentically myself.
May Beauty Issue Cover Story: Laura Geller
Stepping into the world of beauty with Laura Geller is like reuniting with an old friend—one whose inspiring journey in the beauty industry is truly admirable and relatable to women of all backgrounds. At BELLA, we have been proud supporters of the #GellerGals for years, but it's not until you meet Laura in person that you truly understand her authenticity, warmth, and infectious energy.
Creative Direction by Vanessa Coppes
Interview By Jennifer MacLellan + Vanessa Coppes
Photography by Michelle Behre
Styling by Mindy Gura + Paula Orlan
Makeup by Laura Geller
Product Photography by Laura Geller Beauty
Stepping into the world of beauty with Laura Geller is like reuniting with an old friend—one whose inspiring journey in the beauty industry is truly admirable and relatable to women of all backgrounds. At BELLA, we have been proud supporters of the #GellerGals for years, but it's not until you meet Laura in person that you truly understand her authenticity, warmth, and infectious energy.
We are delighted to feature Laura Geller on the cover of our 2024 Beauty Issue. She generously shares her tips for achieving the effortless radiance that she is renowned for. We also dive into the innovative techniques and trends that have solidified Laura Geller as a household name in the beauty industry.
Read on as we celebrate Laura's dedication to empowering women and instilling confidence in their own skin at every stage of life. We are proud to pay homage to Laura Geller's remarkable journey and unwavering commitment to helping women feel beautiful inside and out.
A big part of your brand is connecting women and bringing like-minded business owners, influencers, entrepreneurs, and beauty lovers of a certain age together, through curated events. Why is connecting your audience to each other so important to you?
My generation grew up networking in person and while I love how big social media has made my world, and the purpose it serves in connecting people (especially what it has done for my mid-life Geller Gals who have created a wonderful community digitally) there is no substitute for the deeper connections we can make when we get together in person. I’m so proud that we travel to Miami, Los Angeles, Dallas, NYC, the Hamptons, and Chicago for our events and I get to meet and connect with women throughout the whole country.
When you started out in the beauty industry, you were doing makeup for big celebrities, including the industry’s top comedians. I hear rumblings that Laura Geller may want to break into stand-up comedy…?
I’ve always been told that I have a sense for storytelling and comedic timing but was busy being a professional makeup artist, raising my son, and running a brand so it wasn’t the focus. Lately it’s a notion that keeps coming up, and I have more time to consider it, so who knows what the future holds. Stay tuned!
Shockingly, this is your first magazine cover ever! What does that mean to you, your brand, and your message that women of all ages are beautiful and cover-star worthy?
I’m so honored! It means the world to me and the brand to get this kind of recognition after 27 years of Laura Geller Beauty and even longer in the industry as a professional makeup artist. It means more now that it would have back then because so few media companies highlight heritage brands or women over 40+ - it’s always about the shiny new thing. I love Bella Magazine for putting me on the cover and proudly saying we think mature women are beautiful, interesting and cover-stars. It sends such an important message and the fact that I can symbolize that is incredibly flattering.
Chasing Sunsets: Mary + Romain Bonnet
Real estate power couple Mary and Romain Bonnet open up about their success, their love story, and what sets them apart in the cutthroat world of luxury real estate.
Real estate power couple Mary and Romain Bonnet open up about their success, their love story, and what sets them apart in the cutthroat world of luxury real estate.
Mary and Romain Bonnet are known for their impeccable style, sharp negotiating skills, and unwavering dedication to delivering unparalleled service to their clients. As key cast members on Netflix's popular show "Selling Sunset," Mary and Romain have captivated audiences with their dynamic personalities and ambitious drive. With Mary's keen eye for design and Romain's business acumen, they have become formidable forces in the competitive world of luxury real estate. Their commitment to excellence and their ability to close high-stakes deals have solidified their status as fan favorites on the show.
Can you share with our readers how your experience on "Selling Sunset" has impacted your real estate career and personal life?
MARY: Selling Sunset has been a whirlwind and a blessing in so many ways.
On a professional level, the opportunities, collaborations, brand recognition, etc. is unparalleled. There was a learning curve for sure from all the new attention we gained, but I learned how to pivot where needed. For example, a very basic tactic of gaining new clients and converting real estate sales is to conduct open houses. With the taping schedule, my schedule became way more limited, so I had to find a way to gain clients without these.
Luckily, the show’s massive success helped with marketing tremendously, so while it was a change, it was one for the better! Another example: traditionally, an imperative part of the job is having a phone number accessible for clients to call.
This is no longer the norm. We’ve removed our phone numbers from the website and real estate platforms, which makes the types of clients who approach us and how accessible we are, different than before. But we have adapted! Lastly, the reach is vaster– we’re on a global status now due to the show, which is so cool.
On a personal level, we’ve been catapulted into the public eye, which has taken some getting used to for sure, but I’ve settled into it and would like to believe I am doing a good job of using my platform for good. While life has changed quite a lot, I feel blessed for the opportunity.
ROMAIN: Mary said it best when it comes to how it affected our personal life. Professionally, it impacted me quite a bit as well. We got so much exposure for our businesses and got the chance to showcase our work. White Glove Estates has benefited greatly from the business the show has generated through The Oppenheim Group. I’m super grateful for that.
What are some of the most memorable moments and challenges you have faced while filming the show?
MARY & ROMAIN: Our most memorable moment for sure was our wedding on Season 2. It was so beautiful and memorable, but also stressful (as weddings can typically be). Our previous venue fell through, and we essentially had to re-plan a wedding in less than 6 weeks to coordinate to the new venue style, while simultaneously dealing with interoffice conflict, production/venue/client terms, and guest list drama. But at the end of the day, we wouldn’t change any of it for the world. It is a moment that we will always remember and be proud of because we married the love of our life.
How has your relationship evolved throughout the seasons, and what can viewers expect in the upcoming episodes?
MARY & ROMAIN: Like all relationships, we have faced ups and downs throughout our 7 years together (we just celebrated our anniversary).
We’ve learned to not take things personally when one of us brings home the stresses of the day. o matter how frustrating a day (or each other) can be, we’ve learned to accept that we are both human, we are going to make mistakes and act out on occasions, but the key is remembering that we are taking on more than a normal couple could ever imagine, so at the end of the day we should be proud of ourselves. We are proud of our resilience and continued loyalty for each other.
What are some fun anecdotes that fans might not know about you both?
MARY: I love art, I’ve made most of my artwork in my home and am currently learning pottery.
ROMAIN: I’ve always had a dream of being an Air force pilot in France. I also have a passion for motorcycles and was involved in racing them when residing in France.
What advice do you have for aspiring professionals looking to make it in this competitive industry?
MARY & ROMAIN: It’s definitely not for the faint of heart, and like anything else, there are ups and downs: not only in real estate, but also in the entertainment industry, and with fame. But when you are passionate about something, success will always follow.
How do you help each other stay grounded, despite having such a public lifestyle?
MARY & ROMAIN: Family!! We both prioritize our families, and I think they help keep us both grounded and true to who we are.
What’s next for you?
MARY: I am so passionate about empowering other women and am working on paving my career towards that through doing public speaking opportunities and public appearances supporting the causes that are close to my heart. I am in the works of some fun upcoming projects that will allow me to share some very sensitive moments in my life that I’ve never disclosed, in hopes to help other women who can relate, this year!
Romain and I are still unsure what the future holds for us regarding children, as my fertility struggles continue to be an issue. I will continue to be open about this.
I have a new role on the board of directors for the Foundation of AAGL, which is an international women's health foundation that helps educate women and provide resources to them on all things women's health. We also help raise money to fund initiatives to provide medical care to women worldwide in impoverished areas. Additionally we help fund young OBGYN doctors in their early stages of their career to advance research and global outreach for women's health issues, etc. I've been posting and started a YouTube channel with my good friend Dr. Ido Sirota who is an OBGYN to help get answers out there to women, who may be too embarrassed, scared, or just didn't know what to ask their Dr. about symptoms and conditions that they are experiencing. My fertility struggles and recent diagnosis that was only recently discovered has made this foundation very near and dear to my heart.
We are looking forward to the future and the endless opportunities that life brings, and will continue to enjoy our time with our 2 pups (Zelda and Thor) and I can’t leave out Niko, who still lives on in our hearts.
We love to travel, and will take every opportunity to do so together, whenever our schedules allow.
It’s safe to say that this will be a big year for me and am so excited to share what I have in the works!
ROMAIN: I’m still working on my GC license. We would love to continue building our portfolio and start flipping houses. The dream is to get our own spinoff once Selling Sunset is over. I’m also in the process of putting together an ebook or an app about fitness as it is something that I really love and enjoy.
Interview + Creative Direction by Vanessa Coppes
Photography by Emily Sandifer
Assistant Photography by TJ Dalrymple
Makeup by Luis Casco
Hair by Sienna Watson
Styling by The Style Duo
Assistance by Jennifer MacLellan
Shot at The Godfrey Hotel Hollywood
Crystal Waters: A Trailblazer in Music and Empowerment
House music has long been celebrated for its ability to bring people together, transcend boundaries, and create transformative experiences on the dance floor. Crystal Waters emerged as a prominent figure in the house music scene in the early 1990s, captivating listeners with her distinctive sound that fused elements of house, R&B, and pop. With iconic tracks like "Gypsy Woman (She's Homeless)" and "100% Pure Love," Crystal not only dominated the charts but also reshaped the landscape of dance music with her bold lyrics and empowering message.
House music has long been celebrated for its ability to bring people together, transcend boundaries, and create transformative experiences on the dance floor. Crystal Waters emerged as a prominent figure in the house music scene in the early 1990s, captivating listeners with her distinctive sound that fused elements of house, R&B, and pop. With iconic tracks like "Gypsy Woman (She's Homeless)" and "100% Pure Love," Crystal not only dominated the charts but also reshaped the landscape of dance music with her bold lyrics and empowering message.
Her impact on the genre is undeniable, as she continues to be celebrated for blending infectious grooves with meaningful storytelling that resonates with fans around the globe.
In this special issue of BELLA magazine, we shine the spotlight on the extraordinary talent and unwavering influence of Crystal Waters. As a pioneering figure in the music industry and a fierce advocate for empowering women, Crystal has captivated audiences with her soulful voice, infectious beats, and impactful lyrics.
Join us as we delve into the journey of a trailblazer who has broken barriers, challenged norms, and inspired countless individuals with her artistry and advocacy. In this exclusive cover story, we uncover the essence of Crystal Waters - her passion, her resilience, and her commitment to using her platform for positive change.
As someone who has been an influential figure in the music industry for many years, what drives your passion for creating music and performing?
First, I believe it's the creativity – I love it when inspiration strikes while I'm writing a song, crafting the lyrics and melody. It's like being in "the zone," where space and time melt away, and a beautiful song emerges. There's truly nothing quite like it. Secondly, I adore traveling and performing. Meeting people from diverse backgrounds, witnessing their joy as they sing along to my songs brings me immense fulfillment. I feel incredibly blessed to share the gifts that bring happiness to the world, and I try never to take them for granted.
Throughout your career, you have achieved massive success with hits like "Gypsy Woman (She's Homeless)" and set a unique path for yourself in the dance music genre. Could you share the challenges you faced in breaking barriers, and how did you overcome them?
When I first started in House Music, it was primarily confined to underground nightclubs, making it challenging to be taken seriously; critics dismissed my music as a passing fad. Many doubted my ability to create "real music." Yet, I knew in my heart that I was different and that being distinctive was what I embraced and excelled in. Moreover, being a woman in a male-dominated industry posed its challenges, as some producers sought inappropriate expectations. Overcoming these obstacles required resilience, conviction, and ultimately, surrounding myself with a team that supported my authenticity.
You were one of the trailblazers in the dance music movement of the 1990s, introducing a fresh sound to the mainstream. Reflecting on your journey, how do you feel your music has left a lasting impact on the industry, and what legacy do you aspire to leave?
Looking back fills me with pride, especially witnessing major artists like Beyoncé, Drake, and Ariana Grande incorporating House influences into their music. It validates the enduring relevance and love for a genre that many originally perceived as temporary. To envision that I played a part in its longevity is profoundly rewarding. As for my legacy, I hope to inspire others to embrace their uniqueness confidently.
Your music is known for its uplifting and empowering lyrics. How do you find inspiration for your songs, and what message do you aim to convey to your listeners?
My inspiration stems from observing people and situations rather than through verbal communication; I listen and watch closely. Everyone aspires to improve themselves, seeking encouragement and hope along their journey. I strive to craft lyrics that acknowledge individuals' worth, uplift their spirits, and inspire them to strive for betterment. By exploring various perspectives and not just the obvious, I find the essence of my inspiration.
Throughout your career, you have collaborated with numerous artists and producers. Is there a particular collaboration that holds a special place in your heart? How do you navigate the creative process when working with others?
Collaborating with Jimmy Jam & Terry Lewis remains a standout experience for me. It was a dream come true, as I never imagined venturing into their esteemed realm within my genre. In my creative process, I typically work independently on my part, honing the melody and lyrics to a producer's track. While I enjoy mutual feedback and constructive exchanges, I ensure that the final product aligns with both our visions. Respect for creative input is vital in collaborations. I cherish the days when I recorded vocals in the studio alongside producers, an element I plan to incorporate more in my upcoming album.
Beyond your music, what's next for you?
I am involved in various projects, including hosting a monthly iTunes podcast called "I Am House Radio," syndicated in 52 stations across 19 countries, as well as a weekly show on SiriusXM featuring the same title. My recent single "Dance Dance Dance" has reached impressive ranks on the UK charts. Additionally, I've signed on with Coven Modeling Management NYC and am gearing up for a global tour this spring.
Creative Direction: Vanessa Coppes
Photography: Valentina Rivera
Makeup Artist: Chris Lanston
Hair: Katie Rotie
Stylists: Mindy Gura + Paula Orlan
Assistance: Grace Katich
Location: Crowne Plaza Hudson Yards | Burgerology
Tamsen Fadal: An Inspiring Journey of Success + Self-Love
Amidst the dazzling lights of a red carpet at a BELLA cover party, I crossed paths with Tamsen Fadal in 2015. Since then, our journeys have intertwined, witnessing each other's triumphs and transformations. Yet, what remains a mystery to many is how Tamsen's encouragement marked a turning point in my career. To have another woman seek out the flicker of potential within me and take action to help me climb to greater heights is a rare gift indeed.
Amidst the dazzling lights of a red carpet at a BELLA cover party, I crossed paths with Tamsen Fadal in 2015. Since then, our journeys have intertwined, witnessing each other's triumphs and transformations. Yet, what remains a mystery to many is how Tamsen's encouragement marked a turning point in my career. To have another woman seek out the flicker of potential within me and take action to help me climb to greater heights is a rare gift indeed.
Tamsen's life has been a testament to the power of reinventing oneself and empowering other women to chase after their dreams, regardless of age.
With this cover story, we celebrate her exceptional life and career, which have made her an influential figure in the realm of journalism, personal branding, and empowerment. With a magnetic personality and unrelenting drive, Tamsen has not only conquered the ever-changing media landscape but has also become a beacon of hope for those seeking to overcome obstacles and transform their aspirations into reality.
Tamsen Fadal is an unstoppable force and a symbol of resilience. Join me as we delve deeper into her life. Let her story inspire you to pursue your own dreams with unwavering determination and self-love.
What inspired you to embrace self-love, and how has it positively impacted your life?
Self-love really hit home for me after going through so many of my own ups and downs. Over time, I realized self -love gave me strength and it showed me how important it is to be kind to myself. This shift has been a game-changer. It's helped me embrace who I am, quirks and all, and has given me a whole new level of confidence and peace. From my personal life to my career it has given me true connection.
Can you share some of the key self-love practices and rituals that you incorporate into your daily routine?
Yes, I have learned to look forward to these pockets each day:
Morning Light. Instead of jumping into my day, I start with a walk outside. Whether it's down by the Hudson River or heading to Central Park - this is where my day starts. It grounds me and I believe gives me a quiet space for some self reflection.
Time To Talk. With my new schedule I have added different breaks in my day so I am not just scheduled back to back. My relationships with family and friends have taken such a pivotal role in my life. I take time out each day to make a phone call to someone I have not talked to or check in on a loved one. That personal connection feels so good and has become something I look forward to each afternoon.
Digital detox is not easy for me as a digital creator, but it is necessary in some form. I just schedule a few “unplugged pockets” into each day - meaning time around meals, or non-digital activities like reading or quiet time. It allows me to connect with what's around me and actually be more creative when I plug back in.
Movement. This is in addition to a morning walk. Whether I am moving on a yoga mat or strength training - I fit it in as a priority. In midlife - strength training has moved up on my list of go-to workouts for my bone health and wellness. I just feel energized after even a 15 minute session.
Prioritizing Mental Health. This is big for me. I have gone through a lot of big life changes in the past decade. A divorce. A marriage. A career change. It is important for me to prioritize my mental health. Along with mindfulness practices - I incorporate therapy into each week.
In a world that often emphasizes external validation, how do you navigate the journey of self-acceptance and self-empowerment?
This is all about turning inward and we don’t always take the time to do. I have learned that is what has been key in guiding my life transitions.
Inner Validation. I have learned to appreciate my own thoughts, feelings and achievements. That doesn't mean I am not aware of what other people are doing. But I focus less on others’ approval and try to look more at valuing myself. It comes in the form of setting my own goals and giving a lot of thought to what purpose I want in my life.
Practice Being Present. I love it when my mind clicks and I am present. I get such a feeling of fulfillment about this. It definitely helps lessen the influence of outside pressures.
Be kind to yourself. I encourage people to be kind and understanding if you feel like something didn't go well or you “failed.” Rephrase how you speak to yourself. If you would not talk to your 20 year old self that way - you should not talk to yourself that way today.
You’ve had a successful career in journalism; how has your professional journey intersected with your personal journey towards self-love?
I am thrilled to be taking my passion for storytelling to a new level. I have embarked on a mission to empower women through shared experiences around career moves, midlife, menopause and finding meaning. My aim is to help women claim and embody their true power at any age - encompassing not just resources but rich relationships and opportunities for living a life they have designed for themselves to bring true meaning to each day.
What advice do you have for our readers who may be struggling with self-doubt and insecurity in today's fast-paced and image-conscious society?
It is about finding a way to focus on yourSELF. I have self-doubt and insecurity but I work hard each day to understand it and manage it.
Self-Compassion. Be kind to yourself and understand that it's normal to experience self-doubt. Treat yourself with the same empathy and understanding you would offer a friend.
Engage Yourself in Physical Activity. This helps my mood in a big way and just gives me a boost of self-esteem. I feel accomplished at the end of any physical activity.
Limit Social Media Intake: I love social media but if it is making you feel badly about yourself or you are following accounts that present unrealistic standards that can fuel insecurities. Be aware of who you surround yourself with.
Five Friendships. My friends (true friends) fuel my security and reduce my self doubt. My mother always encouraged me to find 5 friends and keep them close. I encourage you to do the dam.
Share your perspective on the evolving definition of self-love and its importance in fostering mental and emotional well-being.
Self love used to be equated to being self or self egotistic. Today this definition has taken on a beautiful new meaning and it has an essential role in giving us a healthy, balanced life. It is so important to use self love to foster both mental and emotional well-being through nurturing ourselves, nourishing our body, mind and soul (healthy eating regular exercise and pursuing passions and practices that make us unique)
And finally, I believe that self-love plays a role in setting the tone for how we enter into and engage in relationships.
We want to have relationships, friend or romantic, from a place of fullness vs. a place of feeling incomplete.
With the massive shift you've made in your career, how will you use your platform to inspire others to prioritize self-love? What initiatives or projects can we look forward to in your near future?
It is time for a bold change when it comes to menopause. Earlier this year, I traveled to Washington DC advocating for The Menopause Research and Equity act - with the aim of introducing legislation to make menopause research a priority.
We have to take a hard look at how we prioritize women's health, and there is such a need for accurate information about perimenopause, menopause, and midlife women's health. By the year 2025, 1 billion women will be experiencing menopause around the world. This is about self-love and love for other women.
And, I am thrilled to be launching a new podcast this year. And I have a book that will be published by Hachette, Spring 2025, about Midlife, Menopause, and Finding Meaning...
Shoot Credits:
Creative Direction: Vanessa Coppes
Photography: Brandon Parker
Makeup Artist: Chris Lanston
Hair: Katie Rotie
Stylists: Mindy Gura + Paula Orlan
Tieghan Gerard: Revolutionizing the Food Industry
Tieghan Gerard, the brilliant mind behind the online food destination "Half Baked Harvest," has garnered immense acclaim not only for her mouth-watering recipes but also for her unique perspective on culinary creativity. With a keen eye for innovation and a passion for blending flavors, Tieghan has single-handedly revolutionized the way we view and savor food.
Tieghan Gerard, the brilliant mind behind the online food destination "Half Baked Harvest," has garnered immense acclaim not only for her mouth-watering recipes but also for her unique perspective on culinary creativity. With a keen eye for innovation and a passion for blending flavors, Tieghan has single-handedly revolutionized the way we view and savor food.
In this interview, we explore Tieghan's inspiration to break free from culinary norms and her relentless pursuit of flavor combinations that truly stimulate our senses. We get a glimpse into her creative process and learn about the transformative influence that her inventive recipes have had on the cooking landscape. From food bloggers to Michelin-starred chefs, Tieghan's artistry has captured the hearts and appetites of countless individuals around the world.
In anticipation of our 2024 Food Revolution Issue, I am thrilled to present to you an exclusive interview with Tieghan, a culinary force to be reckoned with. Join me as I sat with Tieghan and delved into her journey in redefining the way we approach food.
What inspired your culinary journey and led you to become a prominent figure in the food industry?
This path was born from my love of cooking and sharing that joy with my family. I come from a large family of eight children. As you can imagine, mealtimes were chaotic, so that’s where my journey began. In my attempt to reduce some of the chaos, I taught myself how to cook. I soon realized that I could show my love through cooking by creating meals for the people I care about most. Now, I get to do it for millions of people, which keeps me motivated every day!
In the current food landscape, what trends or changes do you foresee shaping the way people approach cooking and dining in the future?
Food trends vary by region and are changing constantly. I see a large focus on quality and tracing foods back to their origin sources. It's important to know where our food comes from. I think people are becoming more aware of this. I also think sustainability is important going forward. An easy way to begin practicing sustainability can be as simple as using what's in your pantry.
I also feel strongly about promoting an environment that's less about diet culture and more about eating real food. That means food with real ingredients and no additives or preservatives. I know this may not always be possible, but this is what I gravitate towards when developing recipes and cooking for my family and loved ones.
Your recipes often blend creativity with comfort. How do you strike a balance between innovative flavors and the familiar, making your dishes accessible to a wide audience?
Keeping recipes creative yet approachable is so important and can be much easier than people think! I try to use ingredients that are readily accessible for most. Sometimes, that means just using a simple cheddar cheese instead of something fancier that not everyone can access. Trust me, no one will complain if you use Swiss cheese from the supermarket versus a fancy Gruyère from a specialty market. I try to use what's in my pantry and available at my local grocery stores. This also incentivizes me to get creative with what I have and to come up with new spins and ideas! I always say, "use what you got!"
This issue of BELLA magazine emphasizes a "Food Revolution." What role do you believe food plays in driving societal change, whether it's related to sustainability, inclusivity, or cultural appreciation?
Food brings people together. Food is and always has been the center of society. Nothing is more special than pouring your love into a meal and having family, friends, and loved ones gather around and enjoy it together. The kitchen is a place of community and happiness. That's why I love what I do so much! It means so much to me that I can bring joy to those around me.
Beyond that, I also hope to affect environmental change, even if it's only in a small way. Teaching people to cook using unprocessed foods and to use what's in their pantry can also help the environment. Heavily processed foods usually have a higher carbon footprint than real food. And if you aren't making a trip to the grocery store, that helps the environment too. Small changes eventually lead to larger ones!
As a successful food influencer, how have you navigated the evolving digital landscape to continue to connect with your audience and keep your content fresh and engaging?
Constant evolution! You must be able to change and adapt very quickly in the digital space. You have to keep people on their toes and get them excited for what's next! Don't do the same thing every day.
Shoot Credits
Creative Direction: Black Pixel Productions + Vanessa Coppes
Photography: Brent lee
Makeup Artist: Chris Lanston
Hair: Katie Rotie
Stylists: Mindy Gura + Paula Orlan
Assistance: Isabella Alvarez, Valentina Rivera, Mehr Chaudhary
Location: casa bond noho
Jennifer + Joseph MacLellan: a Tale of Love, Resilience, and a Dash of Adventure
Closing out the year with BELLA Magazine’s 2023 Wedding Issue Cover Story
Meet Jennifer:
The Bride-To-Be with a Flourishing Career
Jennifer DeCillis is a dynamic TV host, a seasoned editor, and a bride-to-be. With her roots deeply planted in the heart of Manhattan, New York, and her vibrant career stretching into the enchanting world of Miami, Florida, she has earned extensive experience in the realm of celebrity red carpet events and on-camera work. As the Publisher of BELLA Magazine, a celebrated women's lifestyle publication, Jennifer effortlessly intertwines her passion for writing, journalism, and hosting, expertly covering captivating topics such as beauty, fashion, wellness, and entrepreneurship.
Drawing from her past as a former Miss New York, she continues to harness her platform to inform and inspire others through her tireless work. But as her engagement and nuptials beckon, Jennifer has fully embraced her role as a Bride-To-Be with unwavering enthusiasm and grace.
Meet Joseph:
The Attorney, Entrepreneur, and Global Trailblazer
Joseph MacLellan is a seasoned attorney, enterprising entrepreneur, and astute business owner. His legal expertise shines as Senior Counsel in the Hospitality, Alcohol & Leisure Industry Group at Greenspoon Marder LLP, where he boasts over two decades of experience in the hospitality industry, both as a dedicated attorney and a passionate industry insider. His practice is a seamless blend of hospitality and corporate law, with a focus on the intricate laws that govern the alcohol beverage industry.
Beyond his legal prowess, Joe is the visionary CEO of JDM Global Solutions, a sourcing and manufacturing retail agency, ignited by his love for sports and an innate ability to forge powerful partnerships with esteemed institutions like the MLB and NBA. While his roots span from Brooklyn to the sunny academic terrain of the Sunshine State, his professional and social reach stretches far and wide. His global endeavors have garnered recognition on an international scale. A true polymath, Joe manages a thriving manufacturing business in China, excels in his accomplished legal career, and is tirelessly working on other exciting projects.
This is an extraordinary love story that transcends boundaries. These remarkable individuals, Jennifer DeCillis and Joseph MacLellan, have defied the odds and embarked on journeys that are as diverse as they are inspiring.
As cherished members of the BELLA Magazine family, both Jennifer and Joseph have devoted their talents and passion to our publication. Now, they have found solace and unity in each other as they embark on an enchanting new chapter together.
Their love story is a captivating tale of resilience and unwavering devotion, serving as a testament to the enduring power of true love.
Having been a witness and touched by their journey, I know this special cover story will warm your heart. It’s a testament to how love can conquer all obstacles and stand the test of time.
How did you meet and what was your first impression of each other?
Jen - We met by chance after a failed matchmaking attempt by two mutual friends. They wanted to set us up, but to no avail. Then, one night in NYC, we met when Joe walked into the bar where I was working at the time (he had ironically just come from a wedding.) We ran into each other again the next night and our friends realized we had already met on our own. Fate?
Joe – Classically, I slid into her DM’s the next day.
(Joe – LOL, Jen – eye roll.)
Can you share with us the most memorable moment leading up to your big day?
Joe – Our engagement party, being surrounded by friends and family and watching both sides become one big Family. It was a small taste of what our wedding would be. Jen – Agreed. We almost skipped the party altogether. Our wedding date had fluctuated so much, we didn’t know if and when we could do an engagement party, but I knew I wanted one. I’m so happy we did it.
What has been the biggest challenge you faced while planning your wedding, how did you overcome it?
Joe – Planning a destination wedding, sight unseen, for 200 people. We were both so relieved when we finally visited the venue. We were also fortunate to have a friend that was familiar with the venue and took time out to meet with us during our first visit and we are forever grateful for his help.
Jen – We literally booked the venue based on Instagram photos! We had such a hard time finding a venue that could fit our guest list, and we knew we wanted everyone together for a full weekend, so destination was it. Other than that, we had nothing specific in mind. Neither of us had ever even been to St. Maarten. Luckily, it turned out to be amazing.
What advice would you give to other couples who are currently planning their own weddings?
Joe – Don’t plan a wedding, elope. LOL!
Jen – Honestly, I was so overwhelmed in the beginning of planning that I did suggest we elope. Thankfully, he knew I didn’t mean it. I would say, do whatever you want, it’s your day. There will be so many opinions and unwarranted pieces of advice. People will tell you not to do things, because they don’t follow “tradition…” do it all. There is no blueprint for what your wedding should be.
What are you looking forward to in this new chapter of your lives?
Joe - Building a home and a family together and establishing our collective roots.
Jen – Same. I am so excited for this next chapter. I have been so nervous for what comes after the wedding and the post-wedding blues, scared that the planning will be over and I’ll no longer be a bride. But, I keep reminding myself that I am lucky enough to be marrying my best friend. Someone I can’t wait to start a family with, build a life with – all the most exciting parts are still ahead of us.
Looking back on your relationship, what is the one word that best describes it?
Joe – Adventurous. There have been no dull moments over the past 6 years. I’m fortunate to have found someone to ride this roller coaster of life with and I couldn’t be happier to stay on this ride.
Jen – Resilient. I don’t think anyone would say their entire relationship or journey to the alter was easy, but I think that’s what builds a strong foundation for a couple. We dated for six years before getting married. No matter the hurdle, our love for each other always won. We learned so much about one another and grew not only as a couple, but as individuals. I know what we’ve built will carry on now into our marriage.
The wedding weekend kicked off with a welcome party on the Pavilion Terrace of Ocean Point Resort in Sint Maarten. Overlooking the ocean, the terrace was adorned with traditional colorful floral arrangements, accented by the "something white" theme. The groom was outfitted in shades of white by Eleventy, and the bride wore a custom Lé Lauriér two-piece set of white liquid beading. A live band played and the night concluded with fire dancing under the stars.
The big day commenced as the stage was set on The Sands, where the couple's loved ones would be seated before crystal-clear waters to witness their vows. Inspired by the natural beauty of the island, they opted to incorporate a beach-chic theme. The florals were white, with touches of baby's breath and greenery, courtesy of florist and event designer, Kaya Events. The morning was filled with love as the bride and bridesmaids relaxed in the bridal suite, with wedding glam by MJ Bridal Artistry. The bride wore a custom robe by Lé Lauriér and details included invitations by Minted Weddings, the bride and groom’s signature scents, and a vintage brooch ornamenting the bride's bouquet, sourced from her mother's wedding gown. Her “something blue” was a bouquet pin and locket, holding a photo of her grandmother - a gift from her mother.
The bridesmaids wore alabaster white satin dresses by Azazie, shoes by Steve Madden, and custom earrings by Dune Jewelry – designed by the bride to incorporate the sand of Maho Beach, where the couple would say, "I do." The bride changed into her custom Justin Alexander gown for the ceremony, which she designed with the team – a plunging neckline, adorned with floral applique, a cascading train, subtle sparkle detail, and a cathedral lace veil. Diamond rental collection, Verstolo, completed her look with diamond drop earrings and a simple tennis bracelet. The groom wore a black tux by The Modern Groom and his groomsmen were in coordinating black suits by The Modern Groom.
Guests breezed from the golden-hour cocktail hour to the ballroom reception. For their second looks, the groom changed into a custom white jacket by Nick's Menswear and the bride opted for a sleek Eva Lendel gown of effortless satin, modest crystal detail, and a crossover split – paired with Bella Belle's crystal "Florence" heels - perfect for their first dance to “At Last” by Etta James. DJ Shortkutz and SMG Entertainment brought the party to life and the groom's brother emceed. Their guests made memories in the photo booth, sipped on “his and hers” signature cocktails, and danced the Caribbean night away.
Event Planning: Kaya Events @sintmaartenweddings.sxm
Photography: Christine Flower Photography @christineflowerphotography
Videography: Rio Walks Films @riowalksfilms
Entertainment, Sound, Lighting: Shortkutz Media Group @smg_usa
DJ: DJ Shortkutz, @djshortkutz
Choreography: Arthur Murray @arthurmurrayfortlauderdale
Invitations: Minted Weddings @mintedweddings
Champagne Flutes + Cake Set: Elena Honch @elenahonch.wed
Wedding Swag Bags: My Factory Guy @myfactoryguy
Bridal Glam: MJ Bridal Artistry @mjbridalartistry
Irresistible Me Hair Extensions: @irresistibleme_hair
ibrows by monica: @ibrowsbymonica
Bride’s Welcome Party Dress: Lé Lauriér @lelaurier
Bridal Robe: Lé Lauriér @lelaurier
Bride’s Ceremony Gown: Justin Alexander @justinalexander
Bride’s Reception Gown: Eva Lendel, WONÁ Bridal @evalendel @wona.nyc
Bride’s After Party Dress: Lé Lauriér @lelaurier
Bride’s Shoes: Bella Belle Shoes @bellabelleshoes
Bride’s Jewelry: Verstolo Fine Jewelry @verstolo
Bridesmaid, MOB, Flower Girl Dresses: Azazie @azazieofficial
Bridesmaid Shoes: Steve Madden @stevemadden
Bridesmaid Jewelry: Dune Jewelry @dunejewelry
Groom’s Welcome Party Look: Eleventy @eleventy_milano
Groom’s Tux: The Modern Groom @themoderngroom_
Groom’s Reception Jacket: Nick’s Menswear @nicksmenswear
Groomsmen Suits + Shoes: The Modern Groom @themoderngroom_
Groom + Groomsmen Sneakers: Steve Madden @stevemadden
Composer, Pianist, Director, Fashion Designer, and More: Meet International Rock Star, YOSHIKI
Yoshiki is a composer, classically trained pianist, rock drummer, fashion designer, leader of the rock groups “X Japan” and “The Last Rockstars,” and an international music icon.
Yoshiki is a composer, classically trained pianist, rock drummer, fashion designer, leader of the rock groups “X Japan” and “The Last Rockstars,” and an international music icon.
His musical repertoire includes a song dedicated to the tenth anniversary of the Emperor of Japan’s reign, the official theme song for the World Expo, Hollywood film soundtracks, and the official theme song for the prestigious Golden Globe Awards. Led by Yoshiki, X Japan has sold over 30 million albums and singles and sold out the 55,000-seat Tokyo Dome a record-breaking 18 times. He was the first Asian musician to perform at the world’s greatest music halls including Madison Square Garden, Wembley Arena, and solo performances at Carnegie Hall.
In addition to his music activities, he is a fashion icon, the first Japanese male to appear on the cover of Vogue Japan and the designer of his high-fashion kimono brand, YOSHIKIMONO. Yoshiki was chosen to be the first living person to have a Hello Kitty doll named after him, called "yoshikitty". He is also the founder of Yoshiki Foundation America, a 501(c)(3) non-profit public benefit organization, and has long been committed to philanthropy. In 2021, Baccarat selected Yoshiki to design a Harcourt glass in celebration of its 180th anniversary.
His business ventures include the Japanese record label Extasy Records, the Y by Yoshiki wine brand, Y by YOSHIKI champagne with Champagne Pommery, and a partnership with Coca Cola to release two brand-new energy drinks, Real Gold X and Real Gold. His reach extends to everything from a Madame Tussauds wax figure to a dashing kimono-clad superhero created by Marvel Comics legend Stan Lee. And this year, YOSHIKI announced his new high fashion brand MAISON YOSHIKI PARIS, which debuted during Paris Fashion Week.
Yoshiki’s directorial debut, YOSHIKI: UNDER THE SKY, debuted this fall and held its international premier in New York City’s Times Square, featuring a global concert with today's top musical artists. Yoshiki gathered an extraordinary collection of international artists for this film, featuring powerful live performances by The Chainsmokers, St. Vincent, Sarah Brightman, Scorpions, HYDE, SUGIZO, SixTONES, Jane Zhang, Lindsey Stirling, Nicole Scherzinger, and more. Interspersed throughout the film are interviews with Yoshiki about his passion for music, the pain of having lost loved ones, and exploring the healing power of music.
The film's debut comes just one month before Yoshiki will perform his “Yoshiki Classical 10th Anniversary World Tour” with Orchestra 2023 "REQUIEM", headlining shows at Tokyo Garden Theater in Tokyo, Royal Albert Hall in London, Dolby Theater in L.A., and Carnegie Hall in New York. This tour will be the first time a Japanese artist has headlined all these historic venues.
"When I first began working on this project, I didn't know when we would all be able to gather in the same place and share the joy of music,” says Yoshiki. “Coming together with these great artists from around the world, we were able to create a theatrical experience that I'm very proud of. I'm so grateful for everyone who joined us on this journey."
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Photography: Valentina Rivera
Ellie Goldstein: Breaking Barriers
🎗️ We could not end October [Down Syndrome Awareness Month] without sharing our special digital edition cover story🎗️
Join us in celebrating the incredible achievements of Ellie Goldstein! 💫
From breaking barriers to setting new standards, Ellie Goldstein is a trailblazer in every sense! She became the world's first model with Down's syndrome to grace the cover of Vogue. She also made history by launching Mattel's first Barbie doll with Down's syndrome! And as if that wasn't enough, Ellie is the author of Against All Odds, published on the 21st September 2023.
We are delighted to celebrate Goldstein's year of remarkable firsts and join the movement towards inclusivity and diversity!
We invite you to be inspired by her courageous achievements and embrace the limitless potential of every individual.
Why did you start modeling?
ELLIE: I started modeling because since I was very young I always wanted to walk the catwalk and dress up and become a model.
What nugget of wisdom can you share with parents raising children with DS or any other condition?
ELLIE’S MOM YVONNE: I would say take one day at a time at the beginning. Bring your child up without a label and see them for who they are not a child with a disability. Support them growing up and be proud.
What is the end goal in sharing the work Ellie does?
ELLIE’S MOM YVONNE: The end goal of sharing the work Ellie does is for people never to underestimate her, see the authentic Ellie, see her confidence and the ray of sunshine she brings.
Please share how readers can help and support your efforts.
To your readers. Enjoy Ellie’s amazing book, it will inspire you, make you cry and make you laugh! Enjoy every day and be happy!
FOLLOW @Elliejg16_Zebedeemodel
Nigel Barker: Exploring His Dynamic Creative Journey + Celebrating 20 Years of "America's Next Top Model"
Step into the world of fashion, beauty, and creativity as we sit down with the iconic Nigel Barker, a name most of you recognize from the famous TV show, “America’s Next Top Model,” which celebrates its 20th anniversary this year. For 17 seasons, Nigel has graced our screens as a prominent judge on the beloved series alongside the iconic Tyra Banks, making an indelible mark on pop culture, fashion, and beauty worldwide.
By Daniela Uribe
creative direction: vanessa coppes
Photographer: Michelle Behre
Stylists: The Style Duo
grooming: chris lanston
Location: blondes studios nyc
featured photography by nigel barker
Step into the world of fashion, beauty, and creativity as we sit down with the iconic Nigel Barker, a name most of you recognize from the famous TV show, “America’s Next Top Model,” which celebrates its 20th anniversary this year. For 17 seasons, Nigel has graced our screens as a prominent judge on the beloved series alongside the iconic Tyra Banks, making an indelible mark on pop culture, fashion, and beauty worldwide.
But Nigel's accomplishments extend far beyond his role on reality TV or photography. With his keen insight and natural abilities, he has transformed various industries, effortlessly moving from photography to directing, producing, writing, furniture and fragrance design, and more. Simultaneously, he dedicates himself to philanthropy, leaving a profound positive impact and inspirational legacy through his remarkable talents.
In BELLA’s exclusive interview, Nigel shares the stories beyond the lens, giving us a glimpse into the world of fashion and photography that he's masterfully navigated, the industry developments he has witnessed throughout his career, and what new ventures await in the future.
Take us on a quick journey through your remarkable career, shedding light on how you transitioned from photography to becoming a significant presence in various creative projects.
I never intended on becoming a model, rather ironically I fell into it after my mother entered me into a televised model search in 1989. Instead of heading straight to college, I took a year off to try my hand at modeling to make a little money and see the world. One year led to two, which led to several more, and instead of a university life, I experienced the ‘School of Life.’
After six or so years traveling and living in cities like Paris, Milan, London, and New York, it became increasingly obvious that a modeling career wasn’t sustainable for me. I am a big guy at 6’4” and as the mid-nineties approached, ushering in the era of androgyny and heroin chic, I knew I would have to pivot. As it happened, I had always been a creative person and had studied fashion design, tailoring, weaving, and pattern-cutting, as well as photography at high school. So, it was pretty clear from working as a model that I would be more fulfilled and have greater staying power if I transitioned from one side of the lens to the other.
For several years I did both modeling and photography, and because of my experience as a model I was able to use that knowledge to help empathize with my subjects and help them relax in front of my lens. Then, of course, came “America’s Next Top Model” (ANTM), the perfect show for me as it was exactly how I got my big break many moons before.
Every day on ANTM was a learning experience. It was impressive to watch and learn how to produce an episode of the show, each week and every cycle getting more efficient, streamlined, and better. From Tyra Banks I learned to multitask; her ability to wear both producer and talent hats was amazing. She oversaw every detail of the show and simultaneously worked as the host and ran her businesses. She inspired me to do the same.
One of my big takeaways from that experience was that if you commit and do the work, great things are possible. The sky is the limit; if you can dream it, do it!
I have tried to never pigeon-hole myself into one creative arena and strived daily to challenge myself, from writing books to creating skateboards and photo booths, designing my own furniture line and fragrances, opening gyms like the DogPound, and directing documentaries and TV commercials to understanding that as a creative leader I can work for any type of company, directing the overall creative direction from marketing to advertising and everything in between.
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Creative Direction: Vanessa Coppes
Styling: Mindy Gura + Paula Orlan I The Style Duo
Photography: Michelle Behre
Make-up: Chris Lanston
Hair: Katie Rote
Location: Wave Resort | Long Branch, NJ
Caftan: Cenia New York
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Jessie James Decker: Redefining Success
When you hear the name Jessie James Decker, her music most likely springs to mind. Rising to fame in the county music circuit, Jessie has captivated audiences worldwide, beginning with her own family. From an early age, her intense passion for music was nurtured by her big Italian family who served as her very first audience.
When you hear the name Jessie James Decker, her music most likely springs to mind. Rising to fame in the county music circuit, Jessie has captivated audiences worldwide, beginning with her own family. From an early age, her intense passion for music was nurtured by her big Italian family who served as her very first audience.
“I would sit in front of them and sing over and over again,” says Jessie. “I knew I loved making people happy, and I enjoyed the way it felt.”
A few months out of high school, Jessie scored a record deal, put out a top-20 single, earned a gold record, and toured with the Jonas Brothers. Little did she know this was just the start of her journey.
Fast-forward to the present and the talented star has broadened her skills. Inspired by mentors such as Jennifer Lopez, Jessica Simpson, and Selena Quintanilla, Jessie has successfully—and harmoniously—created an entire brand.
Jessie’s latest cookbook will be released in early October and her fashion brand, Kittenish, is currently collaborating with Flag & Anthem, a fashion brand she’s been a fan of for quite some time.
We sat down with the star for an in-depth conversation centered around her career both on and off the stage, and the most important life lesson she’s learned.
With all that you have happening right now—new music, a new cookbook—would you say you’re living your childhood dream?
Absolutely! I’m living it above and beyond what I ever thought I would be doing. I thought I’d just be making music;, I never dreamt I’d be writing cookbooks and designing clothes. I’m so grateful.
What can readers discover in your new cookbook? Are there any recipes that hold personal significance?
I’ve loved all my books but this one is exciting for me because it encompasses the last few years of my life; it feels more personal. It contains a lot of my travel journeys and things I took away from my trips to Europe, Italy, and Greece. I’m half Italian, and half Greek, and cooking alongside amazing chefs was inspirational.
When COVID happened, we started a garden, got chickens, and tried to get back to that homegrown life that inspired many of my recipes to be greener and cleaner. There are also warm chocolate chip cookies thrown in, so there’s ‘Louisiana Jess’ in there but also the clean Mediterranean recipes as well.
Instagram and Facebook: @JessieJamesDecker
Website: FundRecovery.org • HopeKids.org
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Photographer: Michelle Behre
Stylists: The Style Duo
Makeup artist: Jessica Payne
Hair stylists: Carly Bethel
Location: The Harpeth Hotel, Sweet Haven
Laughter, Fashion, and Life Lessons: Carson Kressley on Success and Staying True to Yourself
With his eclectic taste and infectious personality, Carson Kressley rose to fame in the early 2000s with the hit show, “Queer Eye for the Straight Guy.” Little did he know, this was the start of an incredible journey.
With his eclectic taste and infectious personality, Carson Kressley rose to fame in the early 2000s with the hit show, “Queer Eye for the Straight Guy.” Little did he know, this was the start of an incredible journey.
Before taking the TV world by storm, Carson was happily ensconced in the world of New York City fashion, working for one of the most iconic brands, Ralph Lauren, a company he says he “always envisioned being a part of.”
“I had a job with a non-profit and that was great, but I really wanted to eat and buy a new pair of shoes,” jokes Carson. “I made a list of companies whose products and culture resonated with me, and Ralph Lauren was at the top of that list.” #
Despite not having much experience in the industry except for a love of clothing and its symbolism, Carson landed a job not long out of college with the renowned fashion company.
“I tell people it was like ‘The Devil Wears Prada …’ I was somebody’s assistant, got people’s lunches, picked up samples, and drove around in a black Town Car, but with really nice people who were also very preppy,” says Carson.
Since the world first fell in love with Carson, he’s had the opportunity to be a part of many great projects, both on-screen and off. He is a fierce supporter of the younger generation and aligns himself with organizations where he can help make a difference. “I remember my struggle, and anything I can do to make their pathway in the world a little bit easier, I think is valuable,” explains Carson.
Fascinated by Carson’s story and his passion for life, we sat down with the star to talk about his road to success and the ways in which he is helping others live a stylish life they love.
As a kid, did you ever envision you’d be where you are today?
I have always loved design, but it was not so much in the fashion space as the architectural space. I was constantly doodling houses, floor plans, and landscaping designs. I thought for sure I was going to grow up and become an architect like Mike Brady on “The Brady Bunch”! I thought, that's a great job, and then at some point I realized you had to be really good at math, so I was like ‘OK, next!’ I am not a math person!
I didn't know what I wanted to do at all, even through college. I had no idea what I was going to do the next Tuesday, so I just followed my heart. I knew I wanted to live in New York City, so the day after graduation I had a job lined up—not a dream job, but a job—and moved to Manhattan immediately. I think the city was a great catalyst in giving me amazing opportunities and opened my eyes to a variety of things I could do and that eventually led me to Ralph Lauren.
So, moving to New York City set you on the path you were meant to follow?
Absolutely! Moving to New York right away seemed exciting and a little bit scary, but it's the place where possibilities seem unlimited and that's very much my attitude. I know some people have Impostor Syndrome—I have the opposite! I thought, I'm going to go to New York, I can do anything I want, and I can be anyone I want, and that mindset let me become who I was meant to be.
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