Love, Law + the Spotlight: Divorce Attorney Kara Francis on Why Every Relationship—Even a Celebrity One—Needs a Prenup
By Sari Cohen
“Celebrities are still just people.” — Kara Francis
In a world where breakups trend faster than new albums, Kara Francis isn’t cynical about love—she’s hopeful. The seasoned divorce attorney and relationship coach believes modern romance is evolving, not dying.
“Dating and reality TV are my two favorite pastimes,” Francis says with a laugh. “Romantic relationships are already hard enough, and when you add fame, image, and public scrutiny, it’s a whole different layer of pressure.”
When Love Gets Loud
Few people understand the emotional chaos behind public breakups better than Francis. Watching Joe Jonas and Sophie Turner’s split, she says, was a perfect example of how quickly conflict can spiral when emotions and image collide.
“I just wish I could step in and help them focus on what truly matters — guide them toward resolution and minimize the damage.”
It’s why she’s made it her mission to help couples approach marriage—and even separation—with foresight and compassion.
The Case for a Prenup
Forget the stigma. For Francis, a prenup is simply part of a healthy love story.
“It’s not about wealth — it’s about intention. A prenup forces important conversations: How are we going to handle money? Are we having kids? What kind of lifestyle do we want? These are critical.”
She practices what she preaches:
“My husband and I did our prenup six months before our wedding, and it gave us space to enjoy the lead-up — bachelor parties, showers, all the love and joy — without legal stress hanging over us.”
The Celebrity Love Spectrum
From Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce to Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco, Francis’s takes are thoughtful, funny, and surprisingly tender.
“Taylor’s a global empire. But the beauty here is that Travis doesn’t seem like the type who’d be bothered by it. He feels self-assured and genuinely in awe of her success. He’s her biggest cheerleader — and that’s how it should be.”
“Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco — absolutely adorable. He’s obsessed with her in the healthiest way. That kind of admiration in a relationship is powerful.”
“Zendaya and Tom Holland — they keep their relationship private, which I really respect. When you’re both that famous, boundaries are everything.”
“Elizabeth Hurley and Billy Ray Cyrus — wow, what a mix! Total opposites-attract energy. But my advice is always to ask: once the passion settles, do you want the same life?”
“Not every difference is a deal breaker, but if you don’t talk about it, it can become one later.”
Communication, Francis insists, is the real secret weapon in modern love. Whether merging assets or navigating public attention, she encourages couples to stay curious, honest, and kind.
Reality TV, Real Lessons
As a self-professed reality dating show junkie, Francis uses pop culture as a mirror for modern love.
“I used to think Love is Blind had it figured out… but lately, the influencer aspect is taking over. Some people just want fame — not love.”
That perspective extends to dating apps, too.
“I met my husband on Bumble, but that was in 2020. Things have changed. Apps offer instant gratification with zero accountability. Ghosting is common.”
Still, she’s optimistic.
“Women aren’t getting married for survival anymore — we want connection, alignment, and purpose. That’s harder to find, but so much more meaningful when we do.”
Love as a Practice
Beyond her legal work, Francis is building online communities through Kara Francis Coaching, offering resources for those contemplating marriage—or recovering from its end.
“Not everyone can afford private coaching, but they still deserve support.”
Her ultimate message is clear: healthy relationships aren’t luck—they’re built. With awareness, honesty, and boundaries, even the most high-profile couples can make love last.
“You can build a future together without losing your individual identities.” — Kara Francis
