Discover The Luxury Wedding Architect Crafting Unforgettable Experiences: Forever Refined Events
What are you most known for?
Since 2011, I’ve been the guiding force behind weddings that transcend the ordinary I’ve helped every single kind of bride under the sun refine what they want, read between the lines of what they want to create and I deeply listen to them, so that guests walk into celebrations saying, “this design totally looks like the couples’ personality.”
My portfolio boasts features in Style Me Pretty, Martha Stewart, Brides, Exquisite Weddings Magazine, The Knot, Wedding Wire, and PartySlate.
What do you enjoy the most about wedding planning?
What I cherish most is the opportunity to collaborate with couples who entrust me to make their day exclusively about them. I relish deviating from tradition, allowing my creativity to shape an experience that defies norms. I especially thrive on pushing boundaries with out-of-the-box ideas.
If you don’t want to wear white, then wear color. If you don’t want to get ready separately then get ready with your fiancé beforehand.
The real excitement sets in when I’m challenged with unconventional concepts. From having Tony Robbins officiate once to a porn star wedding with Cirque de Solei performers, even smaller affairs become unforgettable – like a bride walking down the aisle with a 10-people entourage.
When thinking about sensitive political climates and navigating cultural sensitives, what advice do you have for couples facing these?
In a world filled with diverse cultures and political beliefs, I approach weddings with the utmost respect for each unique perspective and experience. Everyone holds their own frame of pain, and nothing I do is going to change that for the person.
Once, I found myself in an awkward situation when the bride’s family wouldn’t let me hold the Ketubah because they knew I was a Lebanese Muslim. I managed it by putting my differences aside, and reminding all the parties why we were there, and beforehand I preemptively made sure I was educated enough and went into it with an open mind.
My advice for couples navigating these sensitive waters is to avoid overemphasizing one culture over the other. For example, if you have Palestine guests coming and you have a blue and white color scheme mirroring the Jewish tradition, you could go with a different theme. Either respect all traditions or choose to not recognize either one. For example, you could go get an officiant instead of an imam or a rabbi.
What are some weddings trends you’re incorporating for your clients?
A big one is focusing on the guest sensory experience so that they hear good music, feel nice linens, see beautiful lights, and taste great food.
Cakes are back. Before you were seeing dessert bars, and now the 3-4 tier cakes are in full force!
Dresses are embracing more color in them. Lighting is creating the ambiance of a space. We’re seeing unique favors, such as personalized watercolor art being drawn by artists, which seamlessly integrates into the overall guest experience.
What advice do you have for a couple looking to incorporate pets into their big day?
Pets and weddings making for the perfect union – a delightful challenge we gladly accept. From creating on-site pet sitting crews to sourcing pet-friendly venues, we ensure furry friends are part of the celebration. A creative touch we’ve successfully implemented is enlarging regal, large-size portraits of the couple’s cherished pets, creating a charming display and enchanting element to the ceremony.
Why should a bride hire a wedding planner?
Beyond navigating through vendors, venues, negotiations, contracts, to name a few, an essential role of a wedding planner is bringing a strategic approach to budgeting.
Might have to skip on flowers or a twinkle light tent? I guide couples in making informed choices that align with their vision without compromising on design, guest experience or budget constraints.
Where can people find you?
Discover more about our exquisite events at www.foreverrefeindevents.com and follow us on Instagram @forever_refined_events.
I’m also the founder of Refined by Suher, a San Diego-based wedding event networking community helping those to learn and grow in business and in life.
Join us on Dec. 12, 2023, in San Diego, CA, for the only awards show of its kind, recognizing excellence in the wedding and event Industry. Nominate your favorites and case your vote by December 6th at
Categories include:
Best Photographer of 2023
Best Cinematography of 2023
Photo Booth of the Year
Entertainment of the Year
Baking Connoisseur of 2023
Catering Company of the Year
Standout Lighting & Production of 2023
Event Design and Rentals of 2023
Hottest Venue in Town
Wedding Planner of the Year
Hair & Makeup Artistry of 2023
Philanthropist of the Year
Officiant of the Year
Best of Stationery of 2023
Florist of the Year
Rising Refined Star 2023
Wild Card 2023